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    Default How does one txt for months?

    Met a girl online. Funnest little cuss ever! Haha Super cute, too. We got started well, got her number, we've been txt'ing for a month now. Txt'ing, literally everyday. And it is playful, flirty txt'ing, more flirty from my side than hers. The reason being, she says she's busy with her new career and she wants to focus on that. She doesn't want to start any romantic relationships until she can fully invest in one without the demands of her new career getting in the way. That will be sometime in September. O_O She also lives 900 miles away.
    Now, the only reason I'm considering this is because this girl is damn cool in lots of ways. We even have similar long-term career goals. No, I do not have oneitis. I am out and about sarging it up locally. If I find someone locally, this girl 900 miles away is gonna have some fierce competition!
    My question is, is this something worth pursuing for that long? I have read the txt guides, and realize the very likely dangers of friendzone. I think, though, if I were this girl's next door neighbor, friendzone would be just as likely considering her current frame of mind. If this is worth a shot, how do I go about it for the rest of summer? My current strategy is to "act" via txt exactly how I would if I were sitting next to her on her couch.

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    Default Re: How does one txt for months?

    She is busy with her career but she obviously has time to text with you every day... IŽd recommend you to asap advance to the next level and suggest an IRL meeting, or is she working on the weekends too? I mean, if you continue to text for months there is a high possibility that either you or her meet someone else while this texting will have a sudden ending and everything has been for nothing but a big waste of time!

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    Default Re: How does one txt for months?

    1. nothing is a waste of time
    2. this one is your choice as you know shes 900miles away
    3. attraction can still be kept high over many months, if you two click conversations will flow
    4. is it recommended you text for long, i'll leave that to you to decide

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    Default Re: How does one txt for months?

    Quote Originally Posted by goodfather View Post
    Met a girl online. Funnest little cuss ever! Haha Super cute, too. We got started well, got her number, we've been txt'ing for a month now. Txt'ing, literally everyday. And it is playful, flirty txt'ing, more flirty from my side than hers. The reason being, she says she's busy with her new career and she wants to focus on that. She doesn't want to start any romantic relationships until she can fully invest in one without the demands of her new career getting in the way. That will be sometime in September. O_O She also lives 900 miles away.
    Now, the only reason I'm considering this is because this girl is damn cool in lots of ways. We even have similar long-term career goals. No, I do not have oneitis. I am out and about sarging it up locally. If I find someone locally, this girl 900 miles away is gonna have some fierce competition!
    My question is, is this something worth pursuing for that long? I have read the txt guides, and realize the very likely dangers of friendzone. I think, though, if I were this girl's next door neighbor, friendzone would be just as likely considering her current frame of mind. If this is worth a shot, how do I go about it for the rest of summer? My current strategy is to "act" via txt exactly how I would if I were sitting next to her on her couch.
    Yeah mate, it's all good, it's all good. It's always good to have someone to practice your thing. Moreover, it's always good to have female friends, even though this one is an online friend.

    Any other romantic thought crossing your mind, I'd say to it "rest in peace"... unless your tongue/dick is 900 miles long.

    Keep up with the good sarging!

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    Default Re: How does one txt for months?

    So this girl says thats she wants to focus on career and you are still raving about this.my guess is she may not be that romantically interested in you but overall your kind of attractive to her.

    Sometimes with these situations mixing up things a bit is not only essential but boots attraction heavily.don't get stuck on one medium for too long.try phone game also.You should have like a few new friends on the side now if you know what i mean.

    Also if you must text make sure its emotionally charged and brief, as much as possible.Avoid building too much comfort too.

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    Default Re: How does one txt for months?

    I've kind of been doing the same thing, same situation. I'm kind of playfull on my side, she not so much but she keeps responding so it must work

    Like you I've had limited contact in person. I have a few. One being you dont have to text everyday. Second, if she keeps responding, she is still interested.

    I wouldnt worry bout the friendzone too much, but make sure to get something in person

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    Default Re: How does one txt for months?

    A long distance situation like this can easily work. However, there are several things that you have to be mindful of when going into this situation.

    The first of which is that you should never try to make it so your life accommodates around her, and that her life does not accommodate around you. The both of you have your own lives and stresses to deal with at home, so don't try to pressure her into any situation that makes her uncomfortable of rushes things.

    The second important thing is that you maintain good contact with her. It's easy to drop off and forget about someone if you never text them for a long time, and it's also important that you keep the conversation entertaining. Try to keep things fresh and flirty, bringing a smile to her face after she has had to deal with the boring and mundane all day long.

    I don't believe it's not possible for you to get this lady, even if she is working towards a career. All you have to do is be that little ray of light in her day, that something that is way different from what she usually has to deal with. Follow this, and you should be just fine.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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