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    Niko_Stylez is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Is this HB9 from facebook interested in me?

    I had a HB9 message me on facebook asking if I can teach her to ride a motorcycle. I got her number and we chatted a little - she made it clear that she would prefer being alone with me.

    We set a date and I ended up having to cancel - my bike wasn't running right. Fast forward and she is coming over tonight for our "lessons".

    I thought it was strange that she asked a complete stranger to teach her something one on one, at the stranger's house.

    She is 31 years old so I thought maybe it's the age. Maybe her friends are all getting married/in relationships and she feels like she is passing her prime and slowly loosing the chance to have a man in her life - I'm probably wrong.

    What do you guys think? I tried posting to get advice but I got no responses so I just want to know if you think she is interested in me or if she just wants to use my bike to practice.

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    Default Re: Is she interested?

    Yes she likes you, why else would she ask a complete stranger. Teach her how to ride the bike and ask her after if she wants to stay for a little, to watch a movie or get dinner or whatever. If she says yes then you're good. Good luck.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Is she interested?

    [QUOTE=Niko_Stylez;92 260]I had a HB9 message me on facebook asking if I can teach her to ride a motorcycle.

    - she made it clear that she would prefer being alone with me.

    We set a date and I ended up having to cancel - my bike wasn't running right. Fast forward and she is coming over tonight for our "lessons".

    I remember being about 20 when some smoking hot 35 year old was flirting with me and she basically had to spell it out for me before it dawned on me. I wonder if I was clueless as you are today?

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    Niko_Stylez is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Is she interested?

    I made a dumb mistake - I listened to my brother's girlfriend's advice... I should have trusted my own judgment and tried something anyways but I'm gonna learn and move forward.

    It started off good. We talked for a little then I started teaching her to ride a 100cc supermoto first. About 30 min. later it started getting dark so we finished up and I put away the helmet and bike.

    I did get to use some Kino throughout the "teaching" part of our time together. Other than that, there's a something I have a question about.

    If I held eye contact with her for 3 to 4 seconds then she breaks away and looks down, to the right (exposing the side of her face and her neck) and runs her hand down her neck, does it mean anything? This happened towards the end, 5-10 min. before she left.

    After she said bye the first time I could tell she wanted something to happen (I should have invited her inside. But, I didn't even think of it - pretty bad, huh? there's always a next time with her or someone else).

    She followed me around when I put away the helmet and stuff away then I told her when she's ready she can ride my 600cc stunt bike, and we talked about motorcycles and what she wants to get.

    I messed up again when she said how old she was when talking about not getting a sport bike because she's 30. I could have said something about her not looking 30 to show interest beyond the kino.

    I'm hoping, if anything, I built rapport today. There is some good news, though. We are meeting again on Saturday. I think I still have a fighting chance for sure.

    Next time we get together should I escalate early on to, in a way, make up for not doing much this time?

    NOTE: I wasn't very nervous at all - I just didn't do anything that I should have done besides a few things here and there.

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    Niko_Stylez is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Is she interested?

    Quote Originally Posted by Suave Kino View Post
    I remember being about 20 when some smoking hot 35 year old was flirting with me and she basically had to spell it out for me before it dawned on me. I wonder if I was clueless as you are today?
    You probably weren't quite as clueless as I am. Due to my own bad decisions, I didn't interact with people often (besides two people) and now I'm bad at everything social - I can't hold long/in depth conversations with coworkers, let alone construct said conversations to work in my favor.

    I'm starting from the very beginning.

    Thanks for your help guys. I appreciate you stating what should have been the obvious.


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