I get a lot of numbers and girls play weird games when texting them. I either get flaky #'s (fake), girls saying they have husbands and are not who I say they are, say they never remembered me 2 days later, act like they have a BF when they gave up their # danced with me and followed me around.
So essentially I find it weird at Clubs when I can get mini-bounces, make outs, numbers, and ioi's, but online I can't even get a HB8 to talk to me. Some of them block me but most just never respond. I find this very odd. I wonder if they literally just get on POF to read some messages, delete others, and basically just ignore guys all day.
Not really sure why I am having so much trouble texting women either. Because if they have a BF, why are they giving me a chance by getting their # and trying to go home with me? It doesn't make sense but I think they are just testing me.
Not sure how to handle the "I have a BF comment" yet. Maybe I should have been freezing them out for 2 weeks after that, ignored the comment (since it never goes well after that) not give into her whims and re-opened them differently later.
Not sure how to handle the blow out over text of "I have a husband" (just a cover), maybe I should just try waiting 2 weeks and re-open differently? What do you guys think? I am having trouble texting HB's and on POF but do good in person this is odd. I feel like if I could get them out it would be on but that is the challenging part.
I mean I get more responses texting it is just a lot of crazy stuff it seems and not sure how to handle girls who say they don't remember, are not who I say they are, say they forgot me 2 days later, say they have a husband to get rid of me, etc. Essentially what I am saying when I am in person I am getting IOI's easy but over text almost never. And online I get practically no responses so not sure why such the different reactions for each different avenue of communication. Any help for improving my texting game and online communication?