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Thread: A Facebook Convo with HB 10 I Met

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    Default A Facebook Convo with HB 10 I Met

    Backstory: I opened an HB10 in real life very briefly when I went to go visit my University for the weekend. There was an event going on and when it was over everyone had to leave. I approached her and opened her for literally 15 seconds before we got kicked out. I told her I was going to message her on facebook. Here's the convo. I'm posting this for 2 reasons. It goes with my philosophy of never having enough text/messaging examples, and I want some opinions on where to take the convo from here.


    8:16pm
    Me
    Hey there, I met you right after impact for a split second, but didn't get a chance to talk to you cause of that lady kicking people out lol. Strangely enough, your eyes gave away a lot about you... If I had to guess, I'd say you're Middle Eastern..
    Monday

    12:13am
    Her
    I remember lol. And how did my eyes give away a lot about me? I'm definitely not middle eastern tho lol
    Monday

    6:21am
    Me
    lol trust me, they pretty much sold your soul (your eyes are phenomenal btw). I'll tell you exactly what they told me, but first you have to tell me where you're from if not the Middle East lol..

    6:22am
    Her
    im mostly German and French. so what did my eyes tell you? lol

    6:36am
    Me
    Interesting, I would have never guessed.. Your eyes told me that you're friendly (not socially awkward lol) and confident, but still somewhat reserved. I saw compassion followed by a smidgen of conceit lol. You're an introvert with extroverted tendencies.. Oh and the dilated pupils were a dead give away on how attractive you thought I was haha

    Monday

    10:15am
    Her
    haha. i dont think you made a correct analyzation.
    Monday

    3:38pm
    Me
    Yeah ok.. Sounds like someone is afraid of the truth haha. So what are you studying?? Someone as stylish as you must be involved in the arts of some kind..

    3:45pm
    Me
    Like painting.. I could see you being a painter

    4:13pm
    Her
    Lol. Off again. I'm a double major in psychology and Spanish for translation. I am a musician tho

    5:27pm
    Me
    Wow and here I was thinking you were the girl of my dreams. A Middle Eastern painter with nice eyes and easy to read. Turns out you're a musically inclined nerd whose quite difficult to read lol .. I don't know if this is going to work haha. I may reconsider if you play a cool instrument. Pretty much anything besides the Tuba lol

    5:29pm
    Her
    I told you you're analyzing was off. Lol. And I sing and play guitar and piano
    Your*

    5:55pm
    Me
    wow that's awesome! Something about girls who can sing really sparks my interest.. Can you sing and get down on the guitar at the same time?

    7:23pm
    Her
    Yep! I'm a performer and a composer

    9:20pm
    Me
    Ic.. We'll have to get a duet going. Of course I don't sing with just anyone. You'd have to audition first lol. I'm not sure if you could handle the challenge though

    She hasn't responded after this, but based on the convo she prolly just doesn't know how to continue on the convo. I was going to wait until to tonight and then send her another message. Something along the lines of this, "Alright Beethoven, music is cool. What are two more things about yourself that would make me want to get to know you better?" After a couple more exchanges I'll go for the number.

    Any feedback would be great fellas. Thanks!

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    Default Re: A Facebook Convo with HB 10 I Met

    seems like ur trying to hard. look how much ur saying compared to her

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    Default Re: A Facebook Convo with HB 10 I Met

    5:27pm
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    Wow and here I was thinking you were the girl of my dreams. A Middle Eastern painter with nice eyes and easy to read. Turns out you're a musically inclined nerd whose quite difficult to read lol .. I don't know if this is going to work haha. I may reconsider if you play a cool instrument. Pretty much anything besides the Tuba lol

    5:29pm
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    I told you you're analyzing was off. Lol. And I sing and play guitar and piano
    Your*

    the bolded above part, i wouldn't say she's the girl of her dreams after a short period of time, even if she is

    Ic.......use I see, if she speaks proper like she does she'll think ur a -_- just saying if u talk like that

    give her 1-2 days since u sent that last message, and then reinitiate and u should be good (y)

    and shes interested despite her saying ur analysings off

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    Default Re: A Facebook Convo with HB 10 I Met

    Agree with hyp. She told you specifically what instruments she plays, apart the fact she told you she was a musician. If she wasn't interested at all, she wouldn't give you some details of her life. Kinda tried to impress you.

    I'd reinitiate with something like "hey, I'm looking for a girl who resembles an arabian girl, but she's european... and is kind of a nerdy, spanish guitar/flamenco player... do you know her?"

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    Default Re: A Facebook Convo with HB 10 I Met

    This convo is a bit trying too hard. It doesn't flow so naturally and feels forced. But she is receptive so that's the important thing. You're off to a good start in your training. But try to relax and realize you are qualifying her before building attraction. Which in summary means you're showing too much interest too soon. Be a little more playful and not so scripted. You're doing good though so keep it up.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: A Facebook Convo with HB 10 I Met

    All the feedback is greatly appreciated fellas. I'm still working on my text/messaging game, but I've definitely seen some improvement.

    @Bendenherover: Noted bro. I always feel a little weird typing so much, but I just thought what I was saying was funny lol.

    @hyp: I said she wasn't the girl of my dreams. I don't know if that changes anything. I appreciate the grammar advice too. I need to drill that into my head. Always use proper grammar. I'll re initiate tomorrow when I wake up.

    @lenric: Perfect message to start back up with. You never let me down man. Thanks!

    @Batman: Ty brother. Yeah upon rereading several times, it comes off as pretty try hard. I'll ease back and try to see if I can evoke more outta her.

    Once the convo concludes, I'll update this thread with the rest of it. Thanks fellas. Imma put all the tips to use.


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