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    Default Should I text her? D2 this weekend

    Ok guys, she is a 31 year old HB9 (I'm 22). I met her on facebook and she came to my house last night so I could give her one on one motorcycle riding lessons which she requested even though we had never even met online until she asked. When presented with two options - meet at a parking lot where my friends and I stunt motorcycles or meet me alone at my house - she made it clear that she would prefer to be alone with me, at my house.

    I didn't do much on D1 other than some Kino and towards the end I held eye contact with her a few times - each time she would hold eye contact 3-5 seconds then look down and to the right. I let her "catch" me still looking (when she broke eye contact, then looked back, I was still looking) and I flashed a cocky smile (when she "caught" me still looking)

    When she was about to leave last night we decided on Saturday for D2 and I told her I'll get in touch with her during the week to set a time for D2 on Saturday - because I need to check my schedule first (which was bullsh1t - my schedule is empty on saturday).

    On to my question:

    If I text her should I be cocky/funny, neutral or something else (maybe show a little interest or give her a small compliment?)?

    I'm thinking about trying Suave Kino's bombshell technique during D2 (to attempt a f-close) so I'm trying to figure out something I can text her that will be beneficial in some way.

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    Default Re: Should I text her? D2 this weekend

    Seems like you guys have that mystery attraction going on. I say go with it and simply text her a time you think is good for both of you. Don't verbalize anything at this point yet and keep the mystery until you are in person and can escalate.

    You have very strong plausible deniability with giving her motorcycle lessons so she should agree to whatever time you say. It's not a straight up date that she can flake on ya know. Hope this helps and good luck.
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    Default Re: Should I text her? D2 this weekend

    Ok, thanks.

    I'll keep it neutral but not too friendly (don't want to get friend zoned).

    I'm planning on completely flipping the script part way through D2 - showing some IOIs and shocking her system with sexual escalation (if all goes well from the beginning that is).

    Is that a good idea?

    Maybe something along the lines of Kino's "Bombshell" - BUT, the bombshell technique may be too advanced for me.

    Can someone point me in the right direction to learn about getting her ready for sexual escalation?

    I got her number, got a date and set up a 2nd date but I don't know how to go from normal (like D1) to showing IOIs and creating sexual tension without being blocked by her Bitch Shield.

    She is a shy woman - but not so shy that she won't talk. She seemed really nervous throughout D1.

    I guess that's because she is attracted to me?

    Should I be more direct or less direct since she's shy?

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    Default Re: Should I text her? D2 this weekend

    This will help with the transition from showing no interest to showing interest. I actually haven't used his Bombshell, but he is a solid PUA so I would take it into consideration. Don't worry about if she's attracted or not. Always assume it's on. If she doesn't at first....she will soon enough. So it doesn't matter.
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    Default Re: Should I text her? D2 this weekend

    Great guide/advice!

    I think I can spin the "bad" first date (I showed little to no interest) to appear as though my interest in her, which wasn't present on D1, is developing naturally.

    I've been thinking that D1 was border-line disastrous - I thought not showing much/any interest on D1 was a bad thing but I'm in quite a good position at the moment.

    Would the following be a good plan (for D2)?

    Qualify her towards the beginning of D2, then move on to showing IOIs, do a subtle test for compliance (reach for her hand and lead her somewhere or something similar)and then begin escalating?

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    Default Re: Should I text her? D2 this weekend

    Compliance tests are a good guide to gauging how much attraction she has for you. Mind you it's a guide, not a rule.

    So run some compliance tests first then qualify. Afterwards it'll make sense to her about you showing more interest in her. It will feel more natural.
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    Default Re: Should I text her? D2 this weekend

    Ok, I think I understand. Would the example I posted below be a good compliance test?

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    Grab her hand and lead her to my friends so I can introduce her (without telling her why or where I'm leading her)?

    If she allows me to take her hand and lead her would that mean she is compliant?

    OR She could pull her hand away showing non-compliance, right?

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    Default Re: Should I text her? D2 this weekend

    Yes that's a good one. Compliance works two ways. One is to give you a rough idea on how attracted she is to you.

    The other is to build compliance in her for when you start doing more serious compliance tests like kissing. It gets her used to you being the leader and calling the shots which could potentially create more attraction.
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    Default Re: Should I text her? D2 this weekend

    Ok.

    The test from my last post would be more for building compliance it seems.

    Could you give me an example of one to test how attracted she is to me?

    Thanks again, you're a big help.

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    Default Re: Should I text her? D2 this weekend

    Quote Originally Posted by Niko_Stylez View Post
    Ok.

    The test from my last post would be more for building compliance it seems.

    Could you give me an example of one to test how attracted she is to me?

    Thanks again, you're a big help.
    How far she's willing to travel to see you. Cook for you. Massage. Pay your way. Bunch of things.
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