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    Default Re: Girl initiates then takes forever to respond (long but interesting)

    Thanks for the input fellas. As for the 'taking too long to text' issue, I didn't make it sound like I was needy. I just mentioned that it was taking a while to get her texts and that maybe one of us have bad reception. In any case, I don't plan to bring it up again.

    As for the gun thing, looking back on it, maybe I shouldn't have mentioned it. Either way, it seems as though she has gotten over it - I mean she is still initiating and everything. I do usually keep things light and fun btw.*

    Thanks Vicodin, yeah I totally understand why you mean by mirroring her response time - I will try my best to do that from now on and like you said, every once in a while, reward her with a quick reply.

    I have another question though. The girl has been initiating every single convo - I do this on purpose of course but should I be initiating sometimes so that she doesn't feel like the relationship is one-sided? I don't want her to think she is bothering me or that I don't care. If I do initiate, what are some good examples of what I can do or say? I mean, she did promise to make up or last Sunday (when she invited me to a ceremony/mass that took an hour and a half and was all in Spanish). And she also mentioned taking me out for sushi for my birthday. Should I lock in a date so that she doesn't renig? The only day I have available this week is Sunday - after that, I won't be available until the following weekend because we work opposite shifts through the week. I feel like I almost have to make sure we go out this Sunday so she doesn't lose interest. Here are a few things I could say. If you have anything better, please do share.

    "So how about that sushi dinner? I'm available Sunday - let me know ; )"

    "Are you available Sunday to go out?"

    "So when are you planning on making up to me for last Sunday? ; )"

    ...And why if she isn't available. How do I lock it in for next weekend?

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    Default Re: Girl initiates then takes forever to respond (long but interesting)

    She's mexican, you can use that to your advantage.

    "aló mamacita, let's eat some sushi/burritos saturday. I'll pick u up at 7.39 at.... Adiós!"

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    Default Re: Girl initiates then takes forever to respond (long but interesting)

    Yeah, I'm not at all familiar with Spanish but I suppose I could learn a few words and throw a text together. Thanks man!

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    Default Re: Girl initiates then takes forever to respond (long but interesting)

    Remember my friend, it's not about the words I wrote, but the emotions on them. Don't ask, state. Don't send a boring text. Send a funny one. You should do fine. Best of luck!

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    Default Re: Girl initiates then takes forever to respond (long but interesting)

    Gotcha. Isn't "mamacita" too much? Is it ok to call a girl "babe" whom you aren't really official with? My only concern is that if she wants to take things slow, it will seem like I'm moving to fast. And I especially don't want to make her feel uncomfortable if she doesn't feel the same way about me. Maybe it's just a playful term and I'm over analyzing it?

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    Default Re: Girl initiates then takes forever to respond (long but interesting)

    Mamacita means hot girl. If you feel insecure about it, end the text with a slight disqualify. "adios mi manita/amiga", which means "goodbye sister/friend"

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    Default Re: Girl initiates then takes forever to respond (long but interesting)

    Good idea with the neg at the end. I'm glad I seen that before sending the text.

    The thing is, when we text, we usually text all day. If I say hi and bye in one text, she will likely think something odd.

    How's this?:

    "Hola señora hermosa. You still owe me a birthday dinner I'll pick you up at 4:03 on Sunday"

    Then, after we finish our conversation later on , I could say

    "Tener una buena noche amigo" (have a good night friend)

    The problem I'm having with putting it all in one text is for the reason I mentioned above and also that it implies that we aren't going to be texting for the next couple days. (it's only Thursday night now). She may find this to be odd since we have been texting all day every day for the past almost two weeks.

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    Default Re: Girl initiates then takes forever to respond (long but interesting)

    Fuck my face, texting everyday all day for the last 2 weeks? When I'm in a relationship I'm not capable of texting my GFs more than 3 days in a row...
    Stop with that mate.

    Concerning the 2nd test, if you wanna spanish that shit up, do it like "buenas noches muchacha, kiss*", but don't send it all spanish. Don't know why, my gut tells me it's not very good for you, kinda try hard. :P

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    Default Re: Girl initiates then takes forever to respond (long but interesting)

    Lmbo! Haha. I'm a noob I know lol.

    Well, I figured that since she is the one initiating all the time, that it's safe to text back. I mean, the conversations are usually pretty drawn out seems how she takes forever to reply (I do also on purpose but usually not quite as long as her). So, we probably only send 12-15 texts each when you consider the time in between.

    There is so much PUA stuff telling you how and when to initiate but what about when she is always initiating? I can't really just ignore her all day? Then what? Tell her sorry for not getting back to her in a timely fashion? Haha, Lmbo. Idk man. I understand what your saying. I just don't know exactly what to do since I don't have a problem with getting her to initiate.

    And I'm at the point now where I actually feel like I better start initiating some of these conversations or she is going to feel like she is the only one invested and lose interest.

    What do you think? Do you have any links to a thread that can help me out?

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    Default Re: Girl initiates then takes forever to respond (long but interesting)

    Initiating** (not insisting).......... .........


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