I'm a white guy for what it's worth. I met a Mexican girl online and added her on Facebook. I realize that ratings are completely subjective to the person doing the rating but to me, I would consider this girl to be an 8 (very thin and beautiful but also pretty short, which is a quality that I happen to enjoy in a female anyway).
When talking about the dating site we met on, she played it off as if she was not really interested in finding someone - she was just "curious" about the site. Through-out the first week of our conversation on FB, we got to know each other and things got flirty here and there but nothing too serious (we are both religious and sort of held a level of respect for each other) - i actually recieved quite a few mixed signals during this time. Keep in mind, when I first meet a girl, I never initiate a conversation - I let the girl do the chasing so I don't look needy.
The girl is Catholic - she was talking about a women's retreat she would be goin to that weekend at catholic church nearby. She said there would be a ceremony Sunday evening and a mass afterwards and invited me to go for support. Even though, I personally am not Catholic and do not speak any amount of spanish, I agreed to go. Personally, I thought it would be a good experience and wanted to show this girl that even though I was out of my comfort zone, I was confident enough to hold my own. (Also, it's worth mentioning that I was the only white person at this church. Everyone was Mexican, they were all Catholic and they all spoke spanish - it was awkward to say the least)
Apparently, I made a good first impression. After the even, she appoligized for it being so long and blah blah. We went our separate ways and she texted me within the hour to tell me she would make it up for it. (as in a date? Idk)
This was two days ago. Since then, she has still seemed interested and still initiating conversations. Actually, today was my birthday but seems how I'm working, she offered to take me out for sushi this weekend.
My problem is that, since we've met, even though she initiates and sends in depth messages like she's interested, she takes forever to reply every single message. At least 10 minutes, most of the time upward of 30-60 minutes. Your thoughts?
Is it possible that shes just busy all the time? Or maybe she's texting a hundred people at once? Or perhaps she just takes a long time so that she can think about the perfect thing to say? Idk what to think. Or is she also trying to "game" me and stay on control?