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    viper98 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default dating a depressed girl-they ever change

    is depression a life long illness or is it just temporary. i know this girl and she takes fluctoname -prozac and she says she take it everyday for 2 years-she lies to me at times. im not sure how long. really but she takes that drug and also her mood changes too. she gets mad or sad pretty easily. at time i didnt text her for a day and told me she was sad since i didnt text her. or her pics didnt get through and she says shes mad in the text msg
    but i know for sure she isnt working, she is 24 , hard time making decisions and changes her mind/or hard time making decisions and very negative and yes she has depression

    im just wonderin if she will ever get better as im looking to settle and long term partner

    will she ever get better and never had to take prozac-flutonaime , will mood be normal, is it curable???

    another guy i met said he knew her 5 years ago when she was 20 and she was nuts. i guess she hasnt changed
    also her mind changes a lot or hard time making decisions about what she really wants. its frustarting so we just do what i want. never met a girl that really really likes me and we didnt know each other that long either. she never had a serious bf and most guys used her just for sex --that what she told me. not sure if its real or just lies
    yea i sometimes find it frustratinng hanging out with her. her choices are all mixed up . they want u to pick her up and later u do and she says shes not sure she wants to sit in my car . im already at ur place in my car. lol

    oh yea sometimes she text my cell at 4 am, 340 am i know since my cell shows the time text came in. so i get text like at 1 am 1 30 am, and then at 4 am around those times. she also has trouble sleeping
    Also one time on our dates she say I'm handsome and another time said I'm average looking and on other date said I'm ugly

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    Default Re: dating a depressed girl-they ever change

    She's likely not just depressed. There's a good chance she's also bipolar or she could even have a personality disorder like BPD or major depressive disorder. If that's the case, then no, she will fight these things her whole life.

    If you want to be with her, you'll have to accept that these traits are part of who she is. If she does "get better," then great. But if she doesn't get better you'd have to be willing to accept that.

    Just remember though, if you get involved knowing that she has these problems, you have a higher moral obligation towards her IMO, because if you do anything to hurt her it will be amplified. Since you're aware of this fact, I feel that you have an obligation to do as little harm as possible. So with that in mind, only get involved if you're willing to accept her for who she is IN THE LONG RUN.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: dating a depressed girl-they ever change

    I would agree with this,

    i was seeing a girl for 5 months who was biplor and it was the most exhausting relationship i have ever been in. and if im honest with myself found it hard to understand some of the things she did. So it takes a special person to put up with it and make sure you know for sure. Because since weev split i have actually felt alot happier in life, a relationship with someone who is bipolar is exhausting, mentally draining and can bring you down aswell. So always rememeber to look out for number 1.


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