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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    so she's got a bunch of guys chasing her, and by the sounds of it she's trying to chase you, if she didn't have any interest in you she wouldn't be trying to chase you

    if they're you're mates/friends you should be able to ASK them what is up with her and the name mentioning

    i guess if you truly want to forget her is to not give in to communicating with her, and if you meet act like nothing is happening, and then go after other chicks, or get the adjustment bureau in and see if they can wipe your memory of her (y)

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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    I I learnt yday that she used to get beat up by her father and she is very insecure, self-conscious she doesnt feel good about herself but I DIDNT KNOW. Another reason to feel very bad about myself :/ , also her friend HATES me, anyway.

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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    that's a bit rough on her part, but the underlying question still remains is why your mates keep saying her name to you, don't worry about her friend, worry about her

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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    Her friend Im talking about is one of the mates (not mine)... and they always discuss about her when Im around like yesterday my friend said she has a big booty and I interrupted saying those are from her South American genes and they were all surprised I replied like and they didnt know what to say. It was kinda hilarious.

    Also, that guy who hates me talked on the phone with her and he didnt mention I was here just the other guy and they hung out with her right after he got off the bus. The girl was waiting for him near the bus stop and they were gonna hang out at the mall after and I had to go to the mall (for another bus) then the guy was being a d1ckhead like You dont need to go to the mall... but I did lol 2 Drama Queens

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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    Quote Originally Posted by Matt94 View Post
    I I learnt yday that she used to get beat up by her father and she is very insecure, self-conscious she doesnt feel good about herself but I DIDNT KNOW. Another reason to feel very bad about myself :/ , also her friend HATES me, anyway.
    For your own sake cut her loose. This is waaaaaaay too much baggage that you don't need to deal with. Just find a normal girl, there are plenty kicking about the place

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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    don't get me wrong sidewinder it could be a good learning xp, although it's probably best to stay away

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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    And Why exactly its best to stay away?

    Sorry Im very slow with these things

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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    She has a tonne if issues!!! Domestic abuse, confidence issues. She's completely messed up in the head and she will be an absolute disaster to deal with. She has waaaaay to much baggage and it will result in her being a nightmare for a gf. She'll do things that make no sense, probably accuse of cheating due to the confidence, she'll have problems with intimacy due to abuse. All round a very bad idea... Just saying

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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    She is likely looking for a positive male relationship, danger is if you fulfil that she will likely be very possessive. She will need a lot of attention and always need to be your primary concern. Best thing would be LJBF her see if the positive influence makes her calm down and become better adjusted and more normal, then she will likely start to qualify herself to you in a more stable manor.

    If nothing else it would help to just keep her as a friend to keep up social proof, you are in control and you are not afraid of anyone. I am sure many people shut her out so if you don't shut her out but play the LJBF card on her correctly in your social circle that makes you as a person stronger because you aren't running like everyone else.

    Avoiding people is very beta in my opinion an alpha doesn't run scared.

    Option 2

    By running from her you will create more attraction to you, you are setting yourself up as a challenge, but the LJBF card may make her actually not want you anymore. Cat String Theory, stay out of reach she will keep trying, be within reach and she may loose interest, this would be to your advantage because if she looses interest in you her friend cannot keep annoying you. At that point it isn't your doing.
    Last edited by hometownextra; 04-25-2013 at 12:41 PM. Reason: Missed point option 2

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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    I think Option 2 is best, I am so embarrassed I want nothing to do with her and/or catch her somewhere in near future and I dont quite understand running from her will create more attraction. Isnít it out of sight out of mind?


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