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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    Find the good in the evil it will be a learning experience that is for sure but with your friends taking what they see to be the high road will keep your social proof up. It is damage control and using pua tactics in reverse, one heck of a learning experience.

    Aside from that it will be like a little sister annoying, awkward but it will make you laugh. Or like a pebble in your shoe annoying, uncomfortable byt walk on and ignore it until it can. Be politely removed with no social taboo.

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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    or...just go up to her, tell her you want to talk to her privatly and ask her why she is acting like this. For not wanting anything to do with this girl you sure are making a big deal out of it.

    You are obviously attracted to her and trying to talk yourself out of it. You also seem to be like what, 15? 16?

    90% of the time direct and blunt is the way to go in any situation like this. You will drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out. Either way, if you sit down and talk with her...well...that will give you a chance to friend zone her if you want.

    OR if she is actually really attracted to you and you just want sex, then tell her that from a confident standpoint.

    IE:
    Her: Man, i just really like you so much I don't know why I can't help it
    You: Well, I think you are really cute, and you seem kind of cool, but I'm only interested in something sexual and i don't think that would be fair to you
    Her: (who knows what she will say) either way you win...get laid or get rid of her

    PS: quit fighting your gut...you have known what you wanted to do here for a while now, you just have to believe in yourself.
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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    Why do I absolutely have to talk to her? Why cant I just let it go ? lol and Im 19 in few days

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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    Be strong, polite, and boring. Not like you have to take her on a date or anything.

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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    You can't let it go because there are some issues, be it physical, hormonal or emotional that won't let you. If you could completely put her out of your life, then I would say that it wouldn't be that hard to get her out of your mind, but this stuff is stressing you out man.

    It seems that she is a part of your social circle, and for whatever reason you will have to see her from time to time, therefore it is going to KEEP bugging you and KEEP being an issue until you deal with it and get on the same page with each other.

    The reason it keeps bugging you is because you are a human being.
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    Default Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?

    You are right, its like I havent been able to describe my problem, and to reply your statement I was thinking that putting out of my life would resolve all issues of course not overnight. The only reason she got back in my head was people around talking about her 70% of the time on different occasions or just saying her name like its the only person they know and remember that I NEVER mentionned her to these folks. Appreciated,
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