Re: Is she stalkerish or desperate?
Yea, if anything you may have hurt your chances with that deletion move. You should play hard to get, but not to the point where it more seems like avoidance and "I don't want anything to do with you".
If anything, I think you may be a tad socially immature for what is going on right now. You need to do a lot of reading, especially into IOIs, and you need to also do some reading into the basic rules and functions of society. I think it would really help you if you knew how to understand and respond to basic human interaction. Being Autistic, I had the same problem. It took a hell of a lot of work for me to get to this point, but it was worth it.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X