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Thread: How/when to intimate texting after a freeze out

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    Default How/when to intimate texting after a freeze out

    So this girl and I had been texting for two weeks non stop when I realized I was texting her way too much, so I decided a Freeze Out was in order. She's been texting me and I've been ignoring her for a day but I don't know when I should start back texting her or even how I would explain ignoring her.

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    Default Re: How/when to intimate texting after a freeze out

    its perfectly cool if you guys text every day...as long as you are seeing each other from time to time and spending time together too, so your Freeze Out may not have been necessary. Generally the rule of thumb is if you are seeing each other...aka spending time together and sleeping together then its really okay for you both to text and what not as much as you want...a freeze out for no reason can really backfire on you
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    Default Re: How/when to intimate texting after a freeze out

    This is not what a Freeze Out is for. If she's texting you a lot then there is still attraction that you can build on.

    A freeze out should only be used if a girl thinks she has you under her thumb or is pushing down the LJBF lines. It's a tactic you deploy to make her miss you and to show her that you are a valuable prize to be chased.

    Don't use it just because you've been texting a lot, that's actually counter intuitive

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    Default Re: How/when to intimate texting after a freeze out

    Well it's a medium distance kinda thing cause she lives 1 1/2 hours away so we don't see each other often and she said that she wanted to take it slow at first and someone said those are the beginnings of LJBF and i really wanna avoid that.

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    Default Re: How/when to intimate texting after a freeze out

    So she keeps showing you IOIs and you showed her one of the bigger IODs, and when she texts you again, you ignore her. Another IOD to an ioi. Seems legit.

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    Default Re: How/when to intimate texting after a freeze out

    Taking it slow is not the same as LJBF... it means what it says, she basically doesn't want you to go overboard with commitment and declarations of love at this stage.

    It's hard to judge this because I don't really understand where you are in the interaction? Are you just dating? Is she a gf? Also are you the one constantly texting and she takes ages to respond... I need to know the dynamic of the relationship.

    But from what I've read so far a Freeze Out is just about the worst thing you can do.

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    Default Re: How/when to intimate texting after a freeze out

    Quote Originally Posted by Blistex View Post
    its perfectly cool if you guys text every day...as long as you are seeing each other from time to time and spending time together too, so your Freeze Out may not have been necessary. Generally the rule of thumb is if you are seeing each other...aka spending time together and sleeping together then its really okay for you both to text and what not as much as you want...a freeze out for no reason can really backfire on you
    So true, I had a girl who got so pissed that she dropped me for when all I did was freeze her out for 1 day. She was acting all submissive and falling for me then went cold on me after the freeze out. This was a bad idea since she was blowing up my phone. After I reinitiated a day later she said she never remembered me! Freeze outs can really backfire when not used properly. But now that I think about it there was no reason for me to freeze her out, I should have texted her later that night.

    She basically told me "I'm busy all day" I thought she wanted some space but I guess I was wrong. I should have reinitiated that night and let her know I was just giving her time to come around and just acted nonchalant about not seeing her that day. I should have been like "We don't have to hang out today I understand" since I wanted to see her that day.

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    Default Re: How/when to intimate texting after a freeze out

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    Taking it slow is not the same as LJBF... it means what it says, she basically doesn't want you to go overboard with commitment and declarations of love at this stage.

    It's hard to judge this because I don't really understand where you are in the interaction? Are you just dating? Is she a gf? Also are you the one constantly texting and she takes ages to respond... I need to know the dynamic of the relationship.

    But from what I've read so far a Freeze Out is just about the worst thing you can do.
    We aren't dating because she's really busy as am I and right now we're getting to know each other again since we haven't seen eachother in over a year. Mostly start the convo and we continue through out the day. Sometimes she'll take hours sometimes she'll text back immediately we usually text in between her college class and in between my highschool ones an I often completely forget to text her back until hours later.

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    Default Re: How/when to intimate texting after a freeze out

    Ok, then definitely no Freeze Out. She's still talking to you and the attraction is probably still there. You need to go the opposite direction. Flirt and escalate instead, build it the sexual Tension...

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    Default Re: How/when to intimate texting after a freeze out

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    Ok, then definitely no Freeze Out. She's still talking to you and the attraction is probably still there. You need to go the opposite direction. Flirt and escalate instead, build it the sexual Tension...
    How do I make my text flirty sometimes i can do it naturally but other times I can't figure out how to steer the convo to make it flirty so it builds the sexual tension


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