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    Default She is into me but pulled an ASD

    So i've been texting this girl for a while now, we are friends and she has a BF and for a while I had a GF.
    I know she likes me because I've been told and she's been really flirty and whatnot.

    I'm in another state currently but we've kept the text flirting going.

    I was joking around with her about being my chick and she replied with
    "If i wanted u i could have u, lol jk "
    I replied "Oh you think so huh? We'll just see about that"
    she replies "if i asked you out would you deny me?"
    I simply stated "i would not"
    then she says "Haha but I'm taken sorry" (classic ASD)
    I replied back "I know this. haha it's all good i'm gonna be outta here soon anyway"

    I don't think I texted incorrectly, I believe the simple statement that I wouldn't deny was in fact an ok thing to say.
    She hasn't replied yet, but help me out here. any experienced texters have any advice? I'm gonna be outta state for a few months still but she's thinking of coming up to visit me and I really wanna turn this into something more than platonic friends.

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    Default Re: She is into me but pulled an ASD

    She sh1t tested you and you failed. When she asked you if you would have said yes if she asked you out, you should have not said yes. It would have been way more in your advantage to make it hard for you. Something like "Not so fast, I don't date strangers" or "Are you hitting on me right now?" would have been way better answers for this scenario.

    Everything after that, although you thought it was passing her off, was definitely not. Women aren't stupid, they can pick up social cues easily, and she easily knew you were attempting to recover yourself after that. When a man attempts to cover up and lie, and a woman sees through the play, it is only a dlv on yourself.
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    Default Re: She is into me but pulled an ASD

    Well there were no lies,
    First of all she's been my friend a while and totally is into me.
    Secondly I am in fact leaving here in June and she already knew that.

    I know I can recover into friendzone but what about anything else?

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    Default Re: She is into me but pulled an ASD

    If you want to recover yourself, don't text her for a couple of days. When you come back, hit her with a humorous topic that is completely unrelated to the current conversation. After that, flirt with her and build up interest.

    The point of what I said did not imply that you lied. The post simply pointed out that your response made it look like you were reeling back and attempting to save yourself. It doesn't matter to her whether you are leaving or not. Women do not feel the need to satisfy their physical needs foremost as men do. They more so value connections and building emotional relationships with people. If you're going to be gone, what's the point in her building a connection with a guy who isn't there unless you are already in a relationship with her? That's what she is thinking, and your goal is to prove to her that you are an interesting guy, and that distance does not matter.
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    Default Re: She is into me but pulled an ASD

    Cool thanks, that's some excellent advice. I was thinking of just Freezing Her Out for a day but wanted some input before I decided.

    I'm pretty good with text openers for the day, I often send random interesting things.
    Just stick with that after a day or two?

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    Default Re: She is into me but pulled an ASD

    Yes sir, that should be the general plan. One other note: don't let the conversation run for too long. If you feel that the conversation is at a high point, cut it off. Do this a couple of times, and it will help you out in terms of building attraction.

    Ending a conversation on a high note will give you a better reaction the next time around than if you ended it when the conversation was finished and on a low note.
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    Default Re: She is into me but pulled an ASD

    Yeah i tend to end it just because I have no idea what to say and I feel like I'll just come off boring.
    I was a little hesitant to just cut off in the middle because we are in fact friends but honestly I have never tried to game a friend before.
    Is it essentially the same?

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    Default Re: She is into me but pulled an ASD

    I have gamed friends and I have gamed strangers. I can tell you it is about the same because there is no such thing as the friend zone. The friend zone is a false mentality guys create when a girl is nice with them and they don't think they can get anywhere else with them.

    There's no need to worry about cutting a conversation off. If you keep it interesting and fun, she will want more. If you get to the point that you stated, then she will have no reason to contact you again. She got her fair fill, so why should she want to contact you again?
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    Default Re: She is into me but pulled an ASD

    I would have told her something like, "mabye, but it seems you can't find out"

    YOU NEVER EVER give them what they want over text. IDC if they send you a pic of them wearing only their socks and tell you they want to fuck you, you compliment their socks.
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    Default Re: She is into me but pulled an ASD

    Looks like the people who replied gave you nice advices but will it also work with ex girlfriends? Mine currently put me in the friendzone while she has a new bf but it's kinda complicated cus i went Full Beta on her few days ago ,and she went from ''I like him'' to ''I love him''... she gave me the ''you're too nice for me'' blowoff . Should I go with a different move or use the same thing that Swag said about the alpha?


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