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Thread: girl tells you she went on date

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    Default girl tells you she went on date

    so have meet this girl through a friend and there has been texting back and forth ( we live in different states)

    used some text game, for 3 days.

    most of the replies have been pretty instant then after last text there was a one day delay to reply.

    she apologized and said she had been caught up in some stuff

    " well, lots of things! House work, homework for tafe, my son, doing some paperwork.and going on a date )"

    i'm trying to avoid the friend zone here.

    thanks in advance for the help !

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    Default Re: girl tells you she went on date

    It's one of the closest things to a Sh1t Test you will run into regularly. Don't even acknowledge it. I would say something like...

    Sounds like nothing but work to me...let me know when you are ready for some fun

    my room mate just suggested "Was it everything you ever wanted :P" as well, pretty good if you ask me
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple

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    Default Re: girl tells you she went on date

    Me: " So was the date everything you wished for ? "

    Her: "yes, it was good "

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    Default Re: girl tells you she went on date

    I'll go ahead and stop you here man. I said ignore the date. You basically showed her it got to you. Did it get to you?

    You took a great reply and made it a complete steaming pile of beta crap. My roomie doesn't study PUA at all the first thing he said was "that you was a bitch about it".

    I'll break this down for you.

    He noticed she lumped the date in with other monotonous tasks that people generally don't enjoy. It was supposed to be something with kind of a sarcastic and yet funny and light tone to it. By "it" you could have been referring to any of the tasks as they were all equally as lame. You basically called out the elephant in the room and showed her it bothered you. All isn't lost though.

    Try this:

    Next time I'll take you so it can be a great date.

    No smiley just a period.
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    Default Re: girl tells you she went on date

    Yeah you really should not have referenced the date at all!

    Asking a girl how a date went is a surefire way of friendzoning yourself. You're saying to her "it's okay to talk to me about how your dating life is going with other guys". You know who girls discuss how their dates went with? Their friends!

    Change the subject.


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