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Thread: First Date with Traditional Values Girl

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    Default First Date with Traditional Values Girl

    Setting things up for a first date with a girl who has seemingly traditional, old school values. My question is whether flowers would be a good way to go on the first date or save the flowers for a later date?

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    Default Re: First Date with Traditional Values Girl

    Quote Originally Posted by SconnieJ View Post
    Setting things up for a first date with a girl who has seemingly traditional, old school values. My question is whether flowers would be a good way to go on the first date or save the flowers for a later date?
    No gifts until you're in, or close to, a relationship. Flowers is waaaay to keen for a first date. It doesn't matter wether the girl is traditional or not.

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    Default Re: First Date with Traditional Values Girl

    Yeah you just look like an over eager muppet if you give flowers on a first date

    Linking x

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    Default Re: First Date with Traditional Values Girl

    Definitely no flowers... What for? She will feel utterly AWKWARD if you give them to her.

    Keep it cool and simple. I feel bad for those guys who think gifts and flowers are a key to opening up a girl's eyes to them.

    Once you establish something, even then those things should be special and surprising. Again, that is WHEN you actually establish something.

    Girls like things like that, but from the right person, and the right moment, and right Mindset. You go in on a first date showering her with flowers, you won't really look like a nice guy, you'll look weird.

    Even if she is a nice value girl, some of her friends, when they hear about it, will be like "why would he do that?..."

    Girls say they want romance, but they want it in the right moments and times.

    When I first met my gf, we met up at a softball game of hers. I didn't bring anything but myself and an iced coffee for me to sip on.

    She came and sat next to me between innings the entire time. I didn't have to shower her with gifts or flowers.

    We hung out the next night at a bar and drank together. Again, I didn't sit there and give her anything other than buy a drink here and there.

    She is a traditional kind of girl too. I knew that going on, but I concentrated on showing her I am fun, down to earth, funny, and I have charisma. Engage her with your personality, not material items.

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    Default Re: First Date with Traditional Values Girl

    Yeah...no flowers...I once made that mistake...once...a zillion years ago...lesson learned.

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    Default Re: First Date with Traditional Values Girl

    Agreed, no, Make her qualify for your attention, money, and affection. Being too a easy, no good

    First date maybe a tic tac at most

    But not the whole box just one

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    Default Re: First Date with Traditional Values Girl

    Thanks everyone, I just needed confirmation to not start with flowers right away.

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    Default Re: First Date with Traditional Values Girl

    actually, you might be able to push the issue a bit...I was involved with a girl who was extreeeeeeeeeeemely conservative and all I had to do was suggest a "cuddle fight" and she not only took me back to my house but stayed for some pre-breakfast activities as well. some of the more conservative girls only need a nudge in the right direction and they'll take off running full speed. Be nice and be considerate but be edgy and slightly dangerous too. Just my thoughts, for what they're worth. She wants to be excited and maybe even scared...just don't over do it, she'll scare easy.


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