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Thread: How To Really Text Girls? Questions.

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    Default How To Really Text Girls? Questions.

    Hi Guys,

    So I have a few questions:

    How do you deal with girls who decide to never text first?

    How many text messages should you send a girl per day? without sounding to needy?

    Is it safe to have general conversions asking about her day, etc? or should you keep it all short and go for a meetup instead?

    And by text, how often should you try and get a meetup?

    Also, does anyone have tips for the best funny/sexy/flirty message to send as the 1st message of the day? would be good to hear what you guys do that gets good responses.

    thanks

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    Default Re: How To Really Text Girls? Questions.

    Girls who text first are pretty rare to be honest man. Most women want a man to take charge and set the tone. There is plenty of info and a few great guides in the texting section of the site.
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    Default Re: How To Really Text Girls? Questions.

    Quote Originally Posted by AlexUK View Post
    Hi Guys,

    So I have a few questions:

    How do you deal with girls who decide to never text first?

    When you say "never text first" do you mean they don't text the very first time, or they don't text you first ever? Most girls will never text you the very first time unless you build huge attraction and get into comfort. If you mean they won't text first ever in the relationship, it's also probably an attraction problem. Only way to really deal with that is to build more attraction. Unless you're an expert with texting, the best way to do this is to meet up in person.

    How many text messages should you send a girl per day? without sounding to needy?

    Text a girl once, if she responds you can text her again. With the exception of the first text, try to only text a girl in response to her texts. If she stops texting you, then you shouldn't text her again that day--as a general rule. You should also vary the time in between texting her. Don't text her back as soon as she texts you every time, or else you'll appear too attainable. But also don't wait too long between every text, or she'll get bored with the interaction.

    Is it safe to have general conversions asking about her day, etc? or should you keep it all short and go for a meetup instead?

    The safe answer is no. In general, only use texting for (1) logistics, and (2) flirting. Don't try to have conversations over text message, and keep all your texts fun and flirty. Never text a girl unless you have something witty and fun to say.

    And by text, how often should you try and get a meetup?

    Don't understand this question. You should get a meetup as often as you can get a meetup. Don't know how else to respond...

    Also, does anyone have tips for the best funny/sexy/flirty message to send as the 1st message of the day? would be good to hear what you guys do that gets good responses.

    T-mal's guide "Texting do's & don'ts.. the 'Conversational Bible'" is, IMO, the best guide for fun and flirty texting. Give it a read and it will answer most (if not all) of your texting questions. He keeps texting fun, which is the most important thing.

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