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    Default Texting problem with women texting me first

    Is this a AFC move? I want girls to text me first and when they don't I never text them either. ( I'm starting to notice that that's how I've been losing most of my girls these days/ and rushing into sexual conversation). Help

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    Default Re: Texting problem with women texting me first

    I wouldn't exactly say it's AFC. Because at least with that you have a frame of mind that says "I'm not gonna chase you all the time". But you can lose girls that way because they seem to think guys are always supposed to text first. Subtle things in human society condition them to think this. But doing this can definitely decrease the "what if" chance with a girl. She can either reply or not reply but don't let that bother you.

    So yeah, I notice I'll text a girl first, with something witty from a conversation when I first met them. Or also, if you text a girl and she doesn't respond. You could probably have the chance to see her via mutual friends. While doing that demonstrate high value, show you're the reward, and get her hooked on you again and challenge her to text you back first. That worked for me the other night (I might make a thread about help on that soon though).

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    Default Re: Texting problem with women texting me first

    Alright. Sometimes I text something an I bored and I know he won't reply but I still do it. When she doesn't reply what do I do?( I personally Freeze Out on her for a couple of days and then contact her again)

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    Default Re: Texting problem with women texting me first

    Best thing to do is move and text another girl. Once you get to a point where you have options on girls to text (who reply or don't) then you won't mind as much. I delete numbers on the regular in my phone when people never text back, nothing personal to them but I just focus on other girls. The freezeout to me can be a double edged sword. Who knows? You might have waited to long and she might find another guy. But I also notice with girls that don't text back, if you sort of demand their attention in a Alpha Male fashion they'll likely to reply.

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    Default Re: Texting problem with women texting me first

    Lmao I thought I was the only one that deletes number constantly because of no reply over a certain amount of time

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    Default Re: Texting problem with women texting me first

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Lmao I thought I was the only one that deletes number constantly because of no reply over a certain amount of time

    I used to do that but I noticed something odd. I re-opened girls in anywhere from 2 weeks-6 months and got like a fresh start and came even closer than the 1st time to getting them out. So I don't know guys I might start saving numbers now. Till the end of the year of course then delete the ones not into me.

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    Default Re: Texting problem with women texting me first

    That sounds better then what I do. But what if each time you text them they hit you with the same "hey" and all of that wack text messages

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    Default Re: Texting problem with women texting me first

    Quote Originally Posted by mackdaddyjon View Post
    I used to do that but I noticed something odd. I re-opened girls in anywhere from 2 weeks-6 months and got like a fresh start and came even closer than the 1st time to getting them out. So I don't know guys I might start saving numbers now. Till the end of the year of course then delete the ones not into me.
    Its also a good incentive not to blow up their phone or keep texting them if you can not resist when they are not responding or have gone cold. Toss their number and that way you cant text them again until they text you back, if they ever do. If they dont oh well, your not wasting effort and focus on them.

    Sometimes you can flip things around from this as well, they text back, you dont recognize the number...Whos this? Oh of course it is....how could I forget your the girl that has the "pink hair" with all the tattoos? Just totally BS them some nonsense...get em confused, maybe they'll laugh, maybe they'll start qualifying themselves to you since you put them on the spot.


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