Yesterday (Sunday), I texted a girl I have been talking to. I said hello and asked if she was still in Texas (she lost a loved one last week). She told me she was two hours from home. We exchanged a few small talk texts and I told her that I would be hanging with some friends and to let me know if she was up for it (it was a 18-20 drive home from Texas). She said she would let me know. She texted back "Heyy" a few hours later. When I replied, she didn't get back to me for a few minutes and said "I'm on my way to church, I'll ttul". Maybe it was a last minute decision? Otherwise, why text "hey" if you cant talk?
After church she says:
"Hey, what are you up to?"
I told her then asked how church was
Her: "Lmbo cool. It was good"
Me: "are you at home?"
Her: "no, I'm at a restaurant getting tacos lol"
Me: "lol, well eat one for me too. Are you coming out or just going to stay home?
Her: "I'm actually going to the Tigers game"
Me: "ok cool. Well, have fun. I'll ttul"
She text me this morning saying "hey. Good morning"
I replied an hour and a half later and asked how the game was and what not. She told me then sort of let the conversation die off.
Why did she text me good morning if she had nothing to say? She did absolutely nothing to carry the conversation. Does she just suck at talking? Did she want to tell me something but couldn't say it? Was it a pity text since she bailed on me yesterday? Or perhaps a boredom text?
A.) freeze her out. If I do this though and she texts back eventually, she will likely still not have much to say.
B.) call her out. This is what I'm leaning towards. I know guys say "never call a girl out. It makes you sound needy" but I'm tired of playing games. I really just want to know if I'm wasting my time and energy or if I should invest it elsewhere.
C.) continue carrying the current conversation. She ended with "yeah lol" and I didn't text back since. I have a few topics I can talk about with her but I don't want to waste my time if she is going to continue with the small talk.
Attraction seems to be fading. Just to be clear. Setting up a date during the week isn't an option because we work opposite shifts. I feel like I need to talk to her this week and keep gaming/flirting until we can set up another date next weekend.
That leads me to option...
D.) wait until tonite and call her on the phone. That way I'm not putting up with boredom texts and I can actually carry a conversation with a tone of voice and at least somewhat gauge her interest. If I go with this option I can integrate either b.) or c.) but as I said before, I'm leanin towards calling her out.