There is a girl that I'm more or less familiar with since seeing her on social gatherings and on the street now and then. Unfortunately, those occurences when I did meet her I wasn't aware of any game strategy.
So I have constantly displayed signs of beta behaviour, low value and weird (non-social) guy. I've been trying to get past all this damage I've done by chatting with her over facebook. At first all she did was ignore me but the replies have gotten more interesting since but I have a problem knowing if she's just playing or if I might have a shot at creating attraction with her.
I've managed to initiate contact with her by helping her fixing her iphone (over facebook) at a time when she posted a status update asking for help. I can share my recent conversations with you. They originally in swedish but I'm fluent in both so translations are pretty accurate. I hope anyone experienced can help me out here!
ME: you'll have to agree with me that It's really annoying with cute people when you try to finish an assignment.
SHE: Haha what
ME: you go in a quickie to reply to some messages and you'll get distracted when pictures of people you find attractive shows up on your feed.
SHE: Haaha really
ME: yep and unfortunately you're not guilty when it comes to this
ME: hope you got something to say to your defence
SHE: Hahha gosh
ME: haha you can gosh all day long
ME: either you remove that profile picture that keeps popping up or I'll have to remove you from facebook :/
SHE: Hhaaha do what you want
ME: Nah ofcourse I won't :P because believe it or not..
ME: I've actually gained something valuable whilst talking to you
SHE: Haha aha
SHE: Like what
ME: Well first off.. alot of things I've thought about you turned out to be all wroong
SHE: What have you thought about me
ME: amongst others that you were really boring.. but you are pretty interesting,
ME: in the way you reply, but you're probably boring irl
SHE: Hahaha yeah sure
ME: see? now you're distracting me again ahaha you're so bad
ME: with 20 mins left to deadline the least you can do is wish me luck ^^
SHE: Haha no
ME: haha geek
SHE: Sure good luck haha gooodnight
SHE:This last convo took place yesterday. Can someone tell me by judgding from the whole picture if there is a sustainable momentum going on here or if she's totally disinterested. She's HB9-10 and pretty hard to get past. I'm not unnatractive myself except being short 5'4 (and that can create a huge problem) but taking inspiration from others I decided to still give it a shot.ME: LINDA
ME: How's my favourite girl an evening like this
SHE: Hahah hello doug
ME: Awesome over here
ME: especially now that we got free schoolday tommorow
ME: but you're a real nerd so maybe you'll become sad instead
SHE: Haha what are you talking about
ME: haha you do know we got a holiday tommorow?
ME: Good! It would've been awkward if you went to school, would have laughed at you for several weeks
ME: maybe you were referring to the fact that you're not a nerd?, because I've heard otherwise
SHE: Hahah gosh whaat
SHE: What are you raving about
ME: Okay.... in the future I'll make sure there is a interpreter between us
SHE: Hahah yeah
ME: I'll make sure it's a good-lookig interpreter though
ME: by the way, have you managed to repair your iphone?
SHE: Haha gosh
SHE: I've updated and restored
SHE: And backuped
SHE: I did everything myself!!
ME: My brother is playing xbox behind me and just asked why I was smiling..
ME: You know how proud I am of you?
ME: Hahahahahha *thumbs up*
SHE: Hahahahh omg
SHE: You must have thought I was retarded or something
ME: No not at all (a)
ME: you shouldn't worry, I'm getting more and more convinced over you for every day that goes
SHE: Hahah good for you
ME: I've even promised myself to remember speaking to you more often
ME: because (to alot of peoples suprise) I'm very forgetful
ME: and I'll have to agree that
ME: (long pause) I got interupted as I was thinking out how to tell you..
ME: simply put, you are my new hess
SHE: Haha what the fark is jrdd
ME: Don't say it so damn loud.. if someone hears you
ME: they'll say "Linda! I wouldn't have believed or thought something like that about you.."
ME: let it stay between uss
SHE: What are you talking about hahaa
ME: you don't know what it means or what?
ME: Well, if you'd been someone else I would have told you but there is a problem telling it to you :P
SHE: Ok don't tell me then
ME: Good, because you're that kind of person that would easily misinterpret it
SHE: Hahah okok
ME: Haha.. I love how you're sitting and thinking "What the fark is Doug talking about.. is he tripping or what.."
SHE: Hhaha exactly like that
ME: Hehe.. that word does have a meaning though, didn't you go to *(this school)*?
SHE: It's actually spelled *(correction)*
ME: fair enough, I'll tell you when we meet, It's close to impossible over text since you'll think I mean something entirely different
ME: and the last thing I want is for you to be confusing matters
SHE: Haha yeeye
ME: I'm just thinking about your best geeeek you know that I care about you(:
*no replies* and I wanted to leave it at that
EDIT1: the hess thing I made up, I'm trying to come up with a cool story behind it to use if I ever manage to see her. I haven't asked out because I'm sure she'd say no pretty quick.