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  1. #1
    tuna_casserole is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default FB Chat: Can't get day2

    Hey so theres this girl from my high school who I added on fb and proceeded to chat w/. Things seemed good, but I canít get her to hang. Donít understand why, so Iím putting it up here in its entirety. I know you guys donít like reading a lot of text so skim or skip or whatever.


    tuna_casserole: Hey long time no see. How 'ya been? 11:47am
    Her: Do we know each other? 11:48am
    tuna_casserole: well shit, you added me.

    Iím half kidding. 11:48am
    Her: Well shit, you requested me! Lol 11:48am
    tuna_casserole: touche. 11:48am
    Her: Hahahahhahahs 11:49am
    tuna_casserole: no, I think I vaguely remember you from high school.
    11:49am
    Her: Touchť? Oh yaaaap

    *names high school*:49am
    tuna_casserole: yup yup

    that was you right? lol

    anyway, tell me something interesting about yourself.
    11:52am
    Her: Yes

    Interesting? None. Unique yes. 11:54am
    tuna_casserole: ok. what's unique about you?



    8 DAYS LATER
    tuna_casserole: So I saw the prettiest bird the other day. 7:16pm
    Her: Lucky you 9:06pm




    1 DAY LATER

    4:01am
    tuna_casserole: I thought you'd appreciate it for some reason. I notice you have an eye for aesthetics.
    Her: You saw me? 4:54am

    If that was the case then thank you for the compliment?!


    10 HOURS LATER

    tuna_casserole: Yea, I guess it's the way you put yourself together. Colors that accentuate certain things about you.. (I think this might have been a bit much) 3:07pm

    Anyway, what do you like to do for fun? (maybe I should have gotten her number or time bridged her here instead of asking her question. I felt like I should have connected


    3 DAYS LATER

    Her: Aw thank you love 1:20pm

    tuna_casserole: No prob. So tell me about yourself mai. lol. what was your favorite movie when you were a kid? (is this trying hard to make a connection with this persistence? Perhaps I should have gone for the number?) 1:38pm
    Her: I'm not too sure. I guess Alice in wonderland 2:06pm
    tuna_casserole: Nice. You cant laught at me if I tell you mine. 2:31pm
    Her: Why would I laugh 3:07pm

    Ill laugh with u but not at u


    3 DAYS LATER
    tuna_casserole: Oh cool you have a beautiful heart. 10:55pm




    1 DAY LATER

    tuna_casserole: So its Beauty and the Beast. Lol 12:06pm

    Her: LOLOLOL!!! How cute 12:37pm
    tuna_casserole: Yea, awesome movie. 2:10pm
    Her: Do u like music
    tuna_casserole: So I was thinking of heading out to a couple parties on st. patties day if you wanted to join me for the fun. Should be an incredible time. 2:11pm

    Oh i didnt see that. yea I love music.

    been playing since I was young.

    here, listen to these songs I wrote a while ago. *reverbnation*
    2:18pm
    tuna_casserole: anyway, what kind of music are you into?



    1 DAY LATER
    11:26am
    Her: Any kind of music is cool with me

    Wale all for nothing
    tuna_casserole: So yea do you want to hang out sunday or is it too soon to ask you that. Lol 4:09pm


    1 DAY LATER

    Her: What's ur cell 12:39pm
    tuna_casserole: (I never give my number unless Iím getting hers, but for some reason I gave her mine first)
    *give my number*. Whats yours so I know you aint a telemarketer. 12:53pm



    Probably should have realized sheís not down to hang here after no compliance on the number.






    3 DAYS LATER

    tuna_casserole: Yea tonights gonna be hella fun. If you cant make it we can always do something another time. 1:32pm


    2 DAYS LATER

    tuna_casserole: Dude st. pattys day was so fun for me. I had a blast. 7:10pm

    Her: Sweet 7:14pm
    tuna_casserole: So I was thinking of getting tacos sometime soon. You should come with cause Im awesome. When are you free? 8:47pm



    2 DAYS LATER

    tuna_casserole: Hey goober. 1:29pm
    Her: Sup 1:29pm
    tuna_casserole: enjoying this awesome weather. life is sweet right now. 1:31pm
    Her: Good good that's awesome to hear 1:32pm
    tuna_casserole: yup yup. how you doin? (lame--should have injected banter, then asked the next question without the first sentence) 1:35pm
    tuna_casserole: anyway, i feel like i kno you, but theres more that we probably dont kno about eachother. do you wanna get margaritas at chevys with me sometime? 1:47pm


    5 DAYS LATER

    tuna_casserole: hey brat. just realized how much cooler i am than you. 7:41pm
    tuna_casserole: That was me being a jokester. you probably think im an asshole now. 7:51pm
    Her: Not even 7:56pm
    tuna_casserole: Great. this is an incredible quality that you must nurture. haha. 8:22pm
    tuna_casserole: So what did you do over the weekend? 8:32pm


    7 DAYS LATER

    FB tells me its her birthday. I send her this.

    tuna_casserole: Damn, didnt kno you were an aries. I cant talk to u anymore. 3:19pm

    (maybe I should have added an lol here and dropped the ďdamn ď part which makes it seem more serious thru text then real life, but it probably donít matter since she dosent want to hang out anyway)

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    Default Re: FB Chat: Can't get day2

    Omg!!! Dude you're talking to yourself throughout the whole conversation!! It's fb, of course she got it the message, don't send another one if she doesn't reply to the first one. You made yourself sound desperate. I use to do that( it's my needy instinct, thinking that I needed the girl). Let her message you back and someone wise told me you should never have a casual conversation during text or messages, get the number or set up a date to meet up, if she doesn't reply it's her loose. Girls only have conversation with guys thy they have friendzoned and want to tell their story to about some guy they like or whatever. DON'T BE IN THE FRIENDZONE, DON'T BE THAT GUY( unless that's what you want). If you don't want that don't message her on boring things( I don't think she have two sh1t what you did on st.Patrick day.) move on and talk to other girls and keep her on the sideline until she messages you or tries to talk to you. Make your self sound exciting so she wants to be part of your world, not just every other guy.

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    Default Re: FB Chat: Can't get day2

    So at what point in that convo do you say i should have gotten her number? Should i time bridge on fb or just get th number?

    I thought mentioning the st. pattys day showed i do exciting things (i had a crazy time). I guess i should relate something specific with high emotional content. I went to a crazy house party and got a chicks number and totally connected about life while we watched my drunk friend fight some dude on the front lawn.


    Was there ever a point in this convo where things were solid and i could have gotten the number? I guess the point where i send a message without her responding sets a tone where there would be no compliance for day2 but i wonder if it ever was solid or possible.

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    Default Re: FB Chat: Can't get day2

    why did you remake this thread again, correct me if I'm wrong but this is the same chick, and if it isn't u still didn't learn from what we told you in the other thread -_-

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    Default Re: FB Chat: Can't get day2

    You didn't have to invite her to hang out with you like 5 times. She never explicitly turned down your invitations but she never seemed too thrilled to accept them either. A pick up artist should have been able to read in between the lines there. No familiarity with each other was built, no significant comfort, or even attraction for that matter. She's not going to go out of her way to jump on an invite to hang out with an essential stranger from facebook. As far as the # close is concerned, your best opportunity would have been when she asked for your #. She only asked you for it because she didn't want to have to decline your invitation. It was partly a Sh1t Test on her part as well. (which you failed by giving her your digits right away btw) What may have worked instead, and what I usually do when a women wants my # is this: "you give me your # and I promise I will only call you 200 times a day until your forced to change your # cuz I have nothing better to do with my life than to chase silly little girls who don't want to talk to me "

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    Default Re: FB Chat: Can't get day2

    you shouldn't use the entire line. It comes off as too much all as once. Break it up. Simply say "give me your #" at that point she will either give you her #, or say no. (occasionally a girl will try to tease you and make you "earn" it lol) Assuming she says no, that's when you can rest assure her its ok in a cocky funny manner that shows that you "get it" (see above)


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