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Thread: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

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    Default Re: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

    Yea, I agree. I think it would set an uncomfortable tempo for the night. I'm going to lay off of it for a little, and saturday i'll invite her to dinner at my house for 3, me the baby and herself haha

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    Default Re: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

    Well it's over. But it's not all bad.

    I texted her this Thursday which previously post on this thread. Later that night I sent this:
    Me: I got some free time saturday so i was thinking you should come taste test a new dish im making.

    I didn't get a response so the next day I decided to say fark it, i want this girl in my life or out of it. I don't have time to be worrying about this so i sent:
    Me:Look, jokes aside. I respect that you have something to tell me. I have something serious to tell you too. Id rather sort this out sooner than later. Can you come by tomorrow

    So she agrees and tonight, maybe an hour ago haha. She stops by and we talk. She wasn't in the Mindset of being in a relationship because she is still getting over her ex. And when I mentioned going on a date last sunday (which i put in a previous post here) it freaked her out. I realized it was last Sunday was when it was over. I told her that's fine, I have also been in that mindset before and i know exactly what she is going through. I offered a friends with benefits including that I will be seeing other people so if she isn't ok with it she should not do it. And she declined because she is not into those types of relations. We talked about a lot more, but through out it all I remained calm and lead the conversation. I made sure to incorporate talking about sex because I want to be open about that...for science(future engagements haha). And we met common ground on how hard it can be to end it with someone. I further told her that if in the future if she finds herself in a better mindset i wouldn't mind starting this back up. She thanked me for being so level headed through the whole thing, and i ensured her i wasn't hurt and that well, sh1t happens and sometimes it just doesn't work out. We kissed goodbye and she left.

    So.. there was a point where i decided to drop any game and just go completely real, which is actually what i'm more doing with my game these days anyway. It was lost way before I even posted here. Through out the conversation i wanted to come across as alpha, unaffected, and experienced with everything that was going on. I think I pulled it off and I have little regrets. Thanks guys for replying, i'm glad i didn't freeze her out because it would make it so much worse. I set a future plan with her where she knew i was going to be seeing other people but if she wants to have some fun than she is more than free to have some fun with me.
    Of course I'm a little affected, if i wasn't seeing her for a month I wouldn't be but i think i allowed us to have the perfect breakup, which counts for something. I learned alot and it's time to move on, preferably with a cute girl i number closed last night that i went Direct Game on and she loved my honesty
    Again, thanks guys it helped to post here.


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