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Thread: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

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    Default Is a freeze out justified in my case?

    I've been going NC with this girl for a couple days now, which isn't too long cause we don't text everyday. She knows I have finals, and she does too, and i have a bunch of other stuff going on. But what made me start to do it is because I felt she was getting me a little under her thumb. Now, I feel like this is just, and slightly, starting to happen. But usually I initiate texting, sometimes she's texted out of the blue to hang. And I guess I feel like I'm giving a little too much. Now, I'm not paying for dinners, lunches,etc... or giving her gifts. But I've invited her to a lot of things I'm doing (friends, bars, parties, dinner, lunch) and she's invited me to I think just one.

    I guess freeze outs are a little bit confusing to me, can someone help me understand them better.

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    Default Re: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

    The short answer is no, this is not a case where you need to do a Freeze Out based on the information provided.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

    Thanks for responding so quickly. I'd hate to Freeze Out when it's not justified.

    I did giver a call sunday and asked if she wanted to go on a 'legit' date, in those words. On the phone she hesitated a bit and I immediately jumped in with "what? you have to think about it!?" I said it jokingly and meant it for that but I'm not sure how she took it. Anyway she said she might have something on friday. The next morning I texted and said "hey sorry I can't do friday, I really do need to study" Much later that day responded that she couldn't either.

    I'm not really sure what to do, with finals coming up there's nothing going on. But I'd rather not go NC.

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    Default Re: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

    I texted her earlier with a bit I picked up from a texting thread at this website.

    1:23
    Me:Hey, i feel like i need to tell you something
    1:49
    Her:Okay-I think I need to tell you something also
    At this point I was like, sh1t. But I had nothing serious. and already had a plan haha
    1:57
    Me:...I think I might be pregnant
    2:07
    Her:Smh (so much hate)
    2:22
    Me:Hate all you want, I'm keeping it. I can't control my sexual nature

    So far nothing, I expected her to just text with whats up? but w/e. I did try calling her a little before I sent that last message because she was being serious and I wasn't and i felt like i should see whats up...but, i'm not sure what do to now, or if i screwed up at all or big

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    Default Re: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

    I was thinking texting back in a while with

    Hey, I like to play around and have fun. But I'm not up for these types of games. If there's something on your mind, let me know.

    but i'm unfamiliar with this type of situation guys

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    Default Re: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

    lol mate, the thing about the text list is that it's cool to send some of them, but not like dropping off a bomb. Any background info, etc?

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    Default Re: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

    We've been seeing each other a few times a week for almost a month, she's slept over a couple times. no f-close but there was some cunnilingus. I have pretty high value. But also her ex cheated on her 3 or 4 months ago and she did really like him. I was implying a actual date i talked about in a post in this thread i went into that. We've been on dinners and lunches, bars too. Though i've never paid for her. anything else in particular?

    And by dropping a bomb you mean the serious note cliffhanger?

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    Default Re: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

    No, I mean initiating a conversation, but since you have already experienced her cozy warm place, forget it lol

    Well... she's attracted to you. Go do something at night and... well, make the sweet love with her, but not before you leave her completely aroused. I mean, completely insane.

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    Default Re: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

    so i should ignore that she had something to tell me? I have finals so nothing is going on, i could have her come hang on my place on saturday maybe, other than that next wednesday is the nearest time.

    just thinking out loud(out on forum)

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    Default Re: Is a freeze out justified in my case?

    If you 2 hang out and she wants to tell you something, she'll tell you. The thing is, you shouldn't go out with her with the excuse of her having something to tell you.


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