I've been going NC with this girl for a couple days now, which isn't too long cause we don't text everyday. She knows I have finals, and she does too, and i have a bunch of other stuff going on. But what made me start to do it is because I felt she was getting me a little under her thumb. Now, I feel like this is just, and slightly, starting to happen. But usually I initiate texting, sometimes she's texted out of the blue to hang. And I guess I feel like I'm giving a little too much. Now, I'm not paying for dinners, lunches,etc... or giving her gifts. But I've invited her to a lot of things I'm doing (friends, bars, parties, dinner, lunch) and she's invited me to I think just one.
I guess freeze outs are a little bit confusing to me, can someone help me understand them better.