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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Quote Originally Posted by rockd View Post
    Yes, be careful about how you apply game. If you use game in the wrong way you'll hurt your chances. If you Freeze Out a girl that didn't deserve it you will probably screw it up.
    This is what I was more concerned about, I know I knocked it out of the park, I've never had a chick kiss me first and certainly never had a first date go 24 hours or have them take me out on a second.. I wasn't exactly going for a freeze out but I had a minor stomach bug so I slept for a full 30 hours. Which helped me relax about the situation when she said she was sick. Still, analytical minds never rest. I guess i'll send her a text saturday morning and see what happens.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Exactly, don't worry you got this, she will be fine you will be just relax. You are way too tense about it. You played smart so far you just need to reengage and go with the flow.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    Exactly, don't worry you got this, she will be fine you will be just relax. You are way too tense about it. You played smart so far you just need to reengage and go with the flow.
    Yeah, I don't have a good feeling about it but at this point there's nothing I can do but learn for the next time. If it happens, great, if not, well I know what not to do next time.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    That is the nature of the world you can't win them all. But never count yourself out unless you feel she isn't worth it. No guts no glory if you want her go get her.
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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    So I sent her a text, mixed feelings on it but whatever. Sent it about the same time as I called her last week, pretty punctual with the response but i'm not having a good feeling about it.
    6:16 "Hey chubs, feeling well enough for some fun tomorrow?"
    6:36 " No -_- the heat made it all so much worse today. And I was almost feeling better. I'm out of town at my grandmas house too. She needed someone to house s"
    " it this weekend, and I figured, I already feel like shit so why not lol"
    7:28 " Feel better, Sensei's orders. When you feel better you can take me out for that ice cream I never got "
    7:29 " Sounds good to me!"

    How to play it?

    My gut says i'm getting blown off no matter how blunt she is to people.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Well you didn't get completely blown out of the water, so take it at face value. There are a thousand worse ways it could have gone.
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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    BRO RELAX. SHE IS SICK, LEAVE HER ALONE. I HAVE TO TYPE IN ALL CAPS TO EMPHASIZE MY POINT. DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT KEEP ON CALLING HER AND TEXTING HER TO CHECK UP ON HER. GIVE HER SOME DAYS TO RECOVER AND THEN TEXT HER. SHE'LL APPRECIATE YOU MORE FOR THAT. Ok, caps done. Seriously though man relax. You're over analyzing. You don't have a concrete "no" so stop trying to create one. Keeping pushing the interaction forward until you know for sure that she is blowing you off. Text her in couple of days with something fun, and keep the convo short. Wait 2 days after that and either text her or call her. In this convo push for a meetup. The last thing you want to do is get rejected because you smothered her with attention.

    Hypothetically speaking, let's say you did get blown off and this is her way of doing just that. That is still not concrete enough for you not to pursue. Assume she likes you go about things as if she likes you until you get a definite NO.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Yeah I got it, and to help think about it less we pulled an impromptu vegas trip. Posting from the Bellagio right now. Whatever happens, happens. Hitting up the forums for possible scenarios is better than not asking at all. I'm just gonna wait until she contacts me, until then, back to the table.

    Thanks for the "e-slap" to the back of the head and all the advice.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    If I may add a slight change in your perspective. You're not waiting for her to contact you. You've moved on and if she contacts you great, if not that's cool too. Little shifts in perspective such as this can go a long way. I'm glad we could help

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Yeah, I've relaxed about it alot. Being that nearly everyone I talked to said I was being an idiot, it's easy to get your mind off stuff like this when your brother is down buku bucks. I'll play it like I was before I got all weird and report back.


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