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Thread: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    So I sent her a text Monday morning, around the same time as she would text me before. No response, so I've written it off as a learning experience. More bummed out about my jacket I didn't get back.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Well,the beginning was smooth it seems.

    I don't think everything's lost,but you were kind of needy when she told you she was sick.

    You shouldn't have texted her asking how she was feeling.

    Your texts should've been something like "Last night was great,my friend Jessie(opposite sex,although not that necessary) bla bla bla.Hope you get well soon."
    Implying that : oh well you were sick last time i talked to you,so I'm having fun without you,but i do hope that you get better.

    If she responded,you could've then asked her how she was feeling,if she didn't you just freeze her out.
    In my opinion you must freeze a girl out if she doesn't respond to your messages where you show that you care for her health.
    You freeze her out until she texts you first.

    You only ask a girl how she is feeling,when she asks for it.Usually she'll send you a text explaining how "sick" she is.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Quote Originally Posted by Ra1d View Post
    Well,the beginning was smooth it seems.

    I don't think everything's lost,but you were kind of needy when she told you she was sick.

    You shouldn't have texted her asking how she was feeling.

    Your texts should've been something like "Last night was great,my friend Jessie(opposite sex,although not that necessary) bla bla bla.Hope you get well soon."
    Implying that : oh well you were sick last time i talked to you,so I'm having fun without you,but i do hope that you get better.

    If she responded,you could've then asked her how she was feeling,if she didn't you just freeze her out.
    In my opinion you must freeze a girl out if she doesn't respond to your messages where you show that you care for her health.
    You freeze her out until she texts you first.

    You only ask a girl how she is feeling,when she asks for it.Usually she'll send you a text explaining how "sick" she is.
    Oh I didn't ask her how she was feeling. The Monday text was just hope you're feeling well and you're a punk for having my only jacket with a hood (sSunday/Monday we had some biblical type rains) More to remind her about my jacket since iI was 99% sure I wadn't going to get a response.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Well ride me hard and call me Sally. I just received a response from her, either she is REALLY sick, verge of death or she chose to respond because she hasn't heard from me.
    Here's what it said " What does that even mean!? Haha and no i'm not getting better. I went to the doctor for the millionth time today and I have to go in tomorrow, Bad sinus infection, yay."

    So she's holding pretty steady to that illness (which she told me about monday before she poofed) so either i'm reading too much into it(doubt it)
    Or she decided to respond because I stopped texing.

    Not really sure how to play it, pointers? I was thinking "I'm great, thanks for asking. What did the doctor say?"

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Sinusitis sucks.....might take awhile of antibiotics and she's full of mucous which probably makes her voice and body unattractive to herself. Just chill.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Quote Originally Posted by Rod27 View Post
    Sinusitis sucks.....might take awhile of antibiotics and she's full of mucous which probably makes her voice and body unattractive to herself. Just chill.
    Being it's a viral infection antibiotics won't help. Not even sure what to say at this point. I understand talking on the phone won't happen but not even texting?
    How should I respond? I was thinking of saying the honest thought but that seems like it'll either go really well or REALLY bad.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    Take breath, relax, don't stress so much. I give you props on trying to prevent yourself from trying to respond too much but some self control is more affective than erasing numbers.

    If you think you are reading too far into it you are over thinking it. That is all there is to it.
    Sometimes its a must..its not long your unfriending her on facebook or "blocking her" she can still call/text. Its just a way to "make sure" your not acting too clingy or blowing up her phone...especially if its not an easy number you cant talk to her until she texts/calls back...and if your in good/ok with her she will......

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    So I took my nap, went to the gym and responded about 4 hours later with.
    "I know you googled it and i'm doing great, thanks for asking How was house sitting?"
    about an hour later
    "I really didn't. As much as I love google, I didn't feel like having to respell it a million times because of going back and forth from google to text haha"
    "And house sitting was amazing. I wanted to disappear from the world and never come back lol"
    about 30min later cause I was cooking. "BTW you missed out on some awesome weekend-ness"

    Not sure what to think but it sure as hell feels like she's playing with me now. We'll see as the days go on.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Now can you finally relax? Lol just pulling your chain Sally.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Hopefully overthinking, dates went great, she went cold

    Uhm I guess, She responded well after midnight when I was already asleep asking me what happened over the weekend,


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