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    Default Day 2 after k-close

    Hi all,

    So, last night I met a girl my age (24) and was at a Club dancing. Only asked names, and i made a joke about me being bad company for her, and we started dancing. Dancing led to grinding, and eventually k-close. After 5 minutes, she goes away, I stick at dance floor, and she, from far, makes eye contact, which i only answer briefly. She comes back to me, and we stare, and kiss - she goes "i shouldnt" i say "yea, guess you shouldnt", but we continue "i have a BF and i shouldnt" i say "i have a fish at home...and a dog.i truly love them" she bursts laughing, we kiss and grind for a long time...until end of night. She then says "i have...a fish you know, so nothing more can happen tonight, but i want your Number" I say next to her ear "guess you shouldnt..." but give it to her, and she calls me to have hers.

    After, at end of club, I have to meet a friend, we say goodbye with a handshake in front of her other friends, and she says quietly "call me"

    I go with my friend, and next day i send
    "hey bad company girl, what kind of troubles are you makin on this nice sunday? cant stop thinking about your soft lips and warm touch"

    No answer until now.

    My guess is:
    a)-she was a lil drunk(not much im sure), and she got time to think about her relation and doesnt want to mess it.

    b) - she thought i would call that evening and i didnt and lost interest.

    I sent the text 2 days ago and no contact since. What you guys think?

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    Default Re: Day 2 after k-close

    It could have been the alcohol, a lot of girls with boyfriends will mess around on the night then not text back.....they are awesome for ONS because of this also your text to her the next day isn't great, seems far too invested I mean you only kissed her so 'can't stop thinking about your soft lips and warm touch' is a little bit cringey :/ if you haven had no contact your probably not going to get any tbh. Move onto the next and go for girls without bf's it's much better that way

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Day 2 after k-close

    Yeah my guess would be that she feels guilty about the bf thing...

    I agree with linking

    your text is a little too much too fast "cant stop thinking about your soft lips and warm touch". Overtly sexual. I would have gone in a little softer and less direct.

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    Default Re: Day 2 after k-close

    gotta agree with that, she seemed straightfoward, and we had a lot of Kino Escalation there - i gave her too much value on the text though.
    anyway, i dont wanna fall on the first obstacle, any ideas for the recover?

    for the next time, in a similar situation, what would be a good message instead of the other i sent?

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    Default Re: Day 2 after k-close

    your girl in my opinion doesn't give a damn about her relation.things were just moving a bit too fast and her guard was up at some point.remember where she said she has a boyfriend so she wouldn't do this?
    yh ryt! great response.My guess is she liked you but you reminded her of the fact that she had escalated fast with you.
    whenever you make out with a girl like that the next day she may definitely judge herself not that she does not like you but may feel a little bit overwhelmed by the whole situation.

    Yur txt was mean.a comeback?"call me" <--- Next time just wait a few days and call.Try to show how on a few ocassions a similar thing happened to you and you and the girl were great friends.etc.basicall y from here start qualifying them then run game.


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