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Thread: She's dating someone but wants me

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    Default Re: She's dating someone but wants me

    No guts no glory, how better to demonstrate value than to make her feel something real.

    Hey that rhymes in the end
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    Default Re: She's dating someone but wants me

    Interesting. I definitely need to read up on that. It's hard to explain, we have a lot of the same interests, same sense of humor and a lot of things we share in common. Being the youngest sibling, growing up with a single mom, similar goals, thirst for travel.

    These are things that just come out during conversations and I don't wanna sound too canned or sound like I say it to all girls. Without sounding creepy and manipulative, what else can I do or say to make her feel more connected?

    Edit. I just realized that asking you guys what to do or say is in itself manipulative and I don't want that as I really am trying o work to be a better person with better game. I guess I'll need to read up more about rapport but my question is that how do I evn initiate that conversation. Like what if I want to appeal on how we grew up with single moms. It seems lik a thin line between building rapport and telling her stuff and lookin totally AFC.

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    Default Re: She's dating someone but wants me

    What makes it AFC? Building a connection with a woman is not AFC. I'm not sure what happened that makes guys on this forum no better than jocks. Like showing any emotion is bad for some reason.

    We are PUAs. We use emotions to our advantage. The problem is getting the timing right. Shit, you can even CRY in front of her if you do it right. If she knows you have trouble opening up and you show that, then one day you break down in front of her. Then tell her you haven't shown that side to anyone. She will LOVE you. Guarantee it.

    Don't shy away from emotions, opening up, or even getting mushy gushy. Telling her you miss her or whatever. The problem is timing. If it's too soon then it can be creepy. But if you wait for the right moment, it's fucking magic.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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