Hey guys, these forums have always been helpful to me and I think I'm finally getting good withmy inner game that things are coming natural. I've been datig around woth a couple of girls and had some success, some failures and some completely wtf moments.
I recently met a girl who is older than me, I'm 25 she's in her late 20's. We met casually at a bar that served brunch, she was so drunk she forgot everything but my name. So we've been talking back and forth and agree that we have crazy chemistry. We finally went out last night to a sports game and had a blast. Got drunk, lots of Kino, kissing and our team won. It was great. At the end of the night we walked to our cars (she drove straight there from work) and I threw in there, "Should we go to my place or yours?" She laughed it off, I live 1hr away, she lives about 20 minutes away. I wasn't dependant on the outcome, just wanted to throw it out there that it's on when the time comes. Even though shes older than me I took charge of the whole night and made sure to be challenging here and there. Told her to give me a better kiss, etc. When it was time to leave she lingered but since she didn't want to take me back to her place, I told her I gotta go.
I know I shouldn't be too stuck on one girl and risk losing her if I chase her. I know to be a challenge and all that, but what are the steps now to ensure I don't fuck it up? She told me she's dating someone but really likes something about me and said it's not serious with them. Should I freeze her out and let her come to me?? I don't want to chase her into the other guy's arms.