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    Default how to warm up a cold shoulder?

    I am pretty much being out-gamed by this one girl, but I am loving it for all the wrong reasons. It is starting to sink in that i am losing the war, although we did hook up and stuff she just went instantly cold after the interaction, i will admit i broke some fundamental text laws and i get the learning curve, but I am basically asking if the correct solution to my situation is to sink the ship and move on to the next?
    Its better to get a "NO" then wonder what she might have been like in the sack ...

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    Default Re: how to warm up a cold shoulder?

    Pick up is always a learning experience. Try to salvage what you can from every interaction no matter how bad it may be going. Don't focus on this girl, but definitely do keep practicing on her. I don't know what happened, but it sounds like she could use a solid Freeze Out for awhile. That would give her chance to miss you, and give you a chance to focus on other girls.

    Never sink the ship. Let it cruise until it can no longer hold it's own merit, and let sink from it's own weight. If you sink it too early, you never know where you might have ended up.

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    Default Re: how to warm up a cold shoulder?

    You aren't done yet even if the effing boat sinks you better tred water. I have come back from a few crash and burns that one shouldn't have walked away from.

    Freeze Out, assess where you went wrong, calibrate the counter offensive, find the right approach, reengage and over run her defenses then take her fortress.

    If you don't make it apply what you have learned. Beware of your framing, body language, and Kino non-verbal crap screws your game the hardest.

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    Default Re: how to warm up a cold shoulder?

    Thanks ... I think that is why I enjoy her fucking with me, because it is the best way to learn how to handle it, my only issue with doing a Freeze Out is the time constraint and what i wished to achieve, but if I think of the techniques she is using: Pre-selection, freezing me out, negs she is still showing interest with body language and all that but because i attached myself to an outcome I F%$Ked myself in the butt in my opinion
    Its better to get a "NO" then wonder what she might have been like in the sack ...

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    Default Re: how to warm up a cold shoulder?

    I gotta get balls .... simple ... that is what i think my issue is
    Its better to get a "NO" then wonder what she might have been like in the sack ...

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    Default Re: how to warm up a cold shoulder?

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    You aren't done yet even if the effing boat sinks you better tred water. I have come back from a few crash and burns that one shouldn't have walked away from.

    Freeze Out, assess where you went wrong, calibrate the counter offensive, find the right approach, reengage and over run her defenses then take her fortress.

    If you don't make it apply what you have learned. Beware of your framing, body language, and Kino non-verbal crap screws your game the hardest.

    Failure is by far the best teacher, success is the reward for remembering that failure and applying those lessons
    I shed tear after reading this lol

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    Default Re: how to warm up a cold shoulder?

    Quote Originally Posted by Skinny View Post
    I gotta get balls .... simple ... that is what i think my issue is
    Easier said then done my friend. Now's the time to go out and grow some balls. Go out and starting meeting random people! Live life, fuck up, learn, and be happy. Fucking up is the quickest way to grow a large steel pair of balls.

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    Default Re: how to warm up a cold shoulder?

    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...nter-game.html

    I started with the link to rb guide body language

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    Default Re: how to warm up a cold shoulder?

    Shit random people is easy, I meet randoms all day, this female is the only annoyance that I cannot conquer hence the issue ... when ever I am bored I wanna text her, one-itis is messed up because the problem is lack of rapport, but she won't build it with me because she expects me to fight her friends for her attention ...
    Its better to get a "NO" then wonder what she might have been like in the sack ...

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    Default Re: how to warm up a cold shoulder?

    Brilliant, I am starting to see the little wrongs I have been doing ... Thanks a load
    Its better to get a "NO" then wonder what she might have been like in the sack ...


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