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    rfjammer is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Potential buyers remorse - how to rectify?

    So been seeing this girl recently and things have weirdly gotten intense fairly quickly - I mean really quickly. It was clear that we clicked from the first five minutes of us meeting. Now this totally freaked me out, don't usually get this kind of feelings from a girl, and what was weirder is that she told me she felt the same. Anyways IMO there is potential here.

    Now after a third date we ended up fucking, a slightly drunken one, I know bad game. The next day she was a bit weird/off (in fact so was I) and we both put it down to being tired and slightly hungover. We had arranged to do something previous to the nights events so I took her to a really nice beauty spot I knew of for a chilled day overlooking the countryside. After the grumpiness on both our parts that morning we actually had a really nice day with lots of Kino/kissing. As we were on the way home she also said she was disappointed in herself for sleeping with me as she didnt want me to get the wrong impression - I think I calmed these fears fairly well. All good right? Not quite.

    During the journey to the spot we told me something interesting, she bought up the fact that she feels intense with me and that she will either do one of two things - continuing to see me or panic, run and never me again (fight or flight I guess). I popped her a text this morning to see how her day was going etc etc and yep she replied but I just have a weird niggly feeling that she is on the cusp of flight. Basically I havent texted her back since she replied to my first text today as thought it'd be good to give her space and i'll text her tomorrow.

    Am i playing this right - never really experienced this situation before.

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    Default Re: Potential buyers remorse - how to rectify?

    buyers remorse situations once she starts to voice it nip it in the butt. In a buyers remorse situation time is your enemy you have to have it handled ASAP

    This one is not quite buyers remorse but you shoulda rectified it quickly.
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    Default Re: Potential buyers remorse - how to rectify?

    We'll I thought I did handle it quickly - I mean we talked the next day, when she said she was disappointed in herself and didn't want me to get the wrong idea about her, I said that I didn't think of her that way.

    Anything else I should do? Was going to text/call her tomorrow to set up a date. Too late/soon?

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    Default Re: Potential buyers remorse - how to rectify?

    See where it goes we will keep pulling for ya.
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