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    Default Does this "last chance message" come across as threatening/pushy?

    In case a girl seems reluctant to meet up, I have sometimes sent this one, tell me what you think about it (smaller once I added it once not):

    Hi xxx!
    Last one from my side, donít feel pushed -and donít even feel forced to reply
    -: Itís just that quick meetups like ours have a follow-up either soon or.. Never.
    So if you wanna give it a go, lemme know your next free day and weíll try organize something, and if not.. I wish you all the best for your future
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    Default Re: Does this "last chance message" come across as threatening/pushy?

    Please, for the love of God, never send this message to anyone. There is nothing, I REPEAT, nothing acceptable about this message.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Does this "last chance message" come across as threatening/pushy?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Please, for the love of God, never send this message to anyone. There is nothing, I REPEAT, nothing acceptable about this message.
    Thanks TheDuke, nice hearing from you

    The one reason I sent it was that it forced a decision when the good memory of the meetup was still fresh and avoided a waning of the the meetup chances, something that seemed to me was happening after a flake and a bit too many "chit chat" messages.

    How would you structure a message to "force" either the meet up or make it clear it isn't going to happen?

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    Default Re: Does this "last chance message" come across as threatening/pushy?

    Just go for a straight up, "Let's meet up" type message. Her response (or lack thereof) will tell you all you need to know 90% of the time.

    The message you gave screams insecurity and neediness.
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