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    Default Re: Texting: What NOT to do...

    I agree with re-reading your texts before hitting the send button. I almost always end up tweaking my texts and making them better when I do this.

    Also, I think a good way to text a girl is if she takes 10 minutes to reply, I take approximately 10 minutes to reply. If she takes an hour or more to reply, I usually wait 30 minutes to an hour before replying.

    That's just the way I was doing it with girls I hadn't met yet back when I was single, seemed to work pretty well.

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    Default Re: Texting: What NOT to do...

    The worst thing you could do while texting a girl is to beg her for her response.

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    Default Re: Texting: What NOT to do...

    i am wondering am i doing anything wrong !
    currently everytime , i am the one starting the conversation.
    Sometimes i have think about what i say and stuff, and she reply ,
    we joked a bit ,and her response was generally receptive.

    But is it really ? , maybe shes just trying to be nice to me,its so confusing at times, the problem is every text i sent,she reply with things like ohh, the test was bad, blah blah blah, i did this ,i like badminton..and then , we say gd nite and it stops,till the next time i text her again.

    I wonder whats going on,maybe shes jus bored and needs someone to talk to??... :/

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    Default Re: Texting: What NOT to do...

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    1) Momentum

    Keeping the momentum going in attraction is very important. A lot of this is due to timing... The texting guide advises you to vary your response times and if you have something else to do then do that first before texting.

    This is good advice but it should only be done once you've built the attraction to a certain point. When you first get a girls number you should ping a few texts back and fourth to solidify the attraction. If she sends you a text and then you wait a few days before responding she'll assume your not interested and ignore it.
    Great post! Just one question... How do you know you've reached this point of attraction?

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    Default Re: Texting: What NOT to do...

    Nothing matters in a conversation other than how you handle it. You can start or end it. She can start or end it. Its all gravvy. You have a choice to put yourself out there to be in it for yourself. If you don't do things for yourself then whats the point. Don't get numbers to say "i got her number!".. Small goals are just that small. The focus is too small to really taste the reward. The number is apart of the big game which is finding someone to be the yin to your yang--in which ever you decide what that means. So apply this to texting. Its not about getting her to respond or lock in a time or date. Its about having fun so you can control how you escalate the situation. Have a big goal filled with many... Many... Small goals.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Texting: What NOT to do...

    hey so I hit up a girl..said what do you do for fun and she said I do anything and she asked the same and I said it don't matter as long as i'm with you she laughed and said come to a party with me and I said sure hmu and she never did...so the next time I hit her up told asked what are you doing tonight she said nothing...let meet up 10 it was too late so i said 830 she said doin what I said my house a movie and take out and she said no thanks...see I said it this eventhough it was weak because I remember how she said she does anything for fun....also the other thing I'm interested in is the enticing part in the text to make her want it...i was looking at rsd and julien was saying how u game her and then you just use the number to see her again not game her again...it should be simple and sweat ...whats ur thoughts

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    Default Re: Texting: What NOT to do...

    Quote Originally Posted by badabingluigi69 View Post
    hey so I hit up a girl..said what do you do for fun and she said I do anything and she asked the same and I said it don't matter as long as i'm with you she laughed and said come to a party with me and I said sure hmu and she never did...so the next time I hit her up told asked what are you doing tonight she said nothing...let meet up 10 it was too late so i said 830 she said doin what I said my house a movie and take out and she said no thanks...see I said it this eventhough it was weak because I remember how she said she does anything for fun....also the other thing I'm interested in is the enticing part in the text to make her want it...i was looking at rsd and julien was saying how u game her and then you just use the number to see her again not game her again...it should be simple and sweat ...whats ur thoughts
    Just frame it as if she's missing out. You can literally tell her she's missing out depending on the relationship you have with her or you can go safer, just move on like it's no big deal. 'So you're a party girl huh? I hope you got some good dance moves!' Not the best example but you get the gist.

    You can also just go silent for a day or two and then reply later but it's best not to end on a negative note so do this after moving the interaction forward a bit.

    As for rsd and text game. There are some situations where text is critical, for example when your girlfriend's outta town or you meet a girl online etc. etc. From what i know of rsd they're mostly nightclub gamers so yeah for them a text is basically pulling it from night game to a date and then something more.

    Texting is a crucial skill in today's day n age but you do need to always have face to face game to seal the deal. So that's why text game is less important but depending on the situation text game can be the be all and end all of interactions.

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    Default Re: Texting: What NOT to do...

    I texted a girl, told her she was sexy, she asked me why I told her that I get horny near her. I just want to know If that was a good move.

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    Default Re: Texting: What NOT to do...

    These are great! I wish I had read this sort of thing years ago!

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    Default Re: Texting: What NOT to do...

    We can't leave out double texting. Sometimes persistence can bolster interest, but too much persistence can demolish attraction.


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