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Thread: What do you do if you don't have personality?

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    Default What do you do if you don't have personality?

    I'm having trouble with this online dating because of lack of personality?

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    Default Re: What do you do if you don't have personality?

    This is from what ALOT of females have told me "omg I get pages and pages of messages from guys, I just dont have the time to go through them all"

    Unless you stand out like lady gaga sometimes you can just go unseen.

    Maybe its not you? Maybe it is? More info please.
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    Default Re: What do you do if you don't have personality?

    kinda in the same boat all my life has been just work just now geting out of my shell and living a better more sociable life. any advice on developing a personality

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    Default Re: What do you do if you don't have personality?

    No personality, bullsh1t, take a personality test if you can show me a zero I will retract that statement. You have interesting characteristics but you are too scared to admit them because of how society has programmed you.

    Take that whining little voice of social reason and kick the crap out of him and show that you like what you like, want what you want and will go out and get it.

    Inner game, or personality isn't something that you can just go out and buy off of eBay. It is also something we cannot just teach you either. We can only give you resources to develop your own

    Best resource here inner game and the search tab
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: What do you do if you don't have personality?

    "Inner game," while technically the answer, isn't the answer these guys need. The truth is, a lot of guys lead incredibly dull and boring lives (I have at times as well). As far as online game goes, I don't think this is as important because you can make yourself appear like your life is exciting without actually making your life exciting. IRL is a different game.

    My advice is to change the life you lead. Go out and do the things you want to do, make the changes you want to make, and make your life as exciting as you want it to be. Don't like how your social life is going? Go out and start meeting people. Don't like how your body looks? Start eating clean and lifting big. Want to add some more adrenaline to your life? Take up an extreme sport.

    The problem you're going to run into is that this stuff all takes time. You can't just decide you're going to change your life, wake up one morning, and have all your ducks in a row. So what do you do until then? Well, personally I believe that you should focus on getting your shit together and then worry about gaming. If you put your focus all your energy into bringing your life together and creating the life you want for yourself, then that is going to happen much faster than if you spend a little bit of energy on that plus trying to game women. That being said, in The Game and Mystery Method, Mystery preaches the concept of "fake it till you make it."

    Like I said, I'd prefer to actually live the life that I want to live instead of pretending to. But that's just me.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: What do you do if you don't have personality?

    Most people have no personality so they talk about sports. Do you have interests? Talk about those, incorporate them into the conversation, be passionate. Unless you're looking for marriage material or girlfriends, most short term girls won't notice the difference.


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