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    Default how to not need to always be yalking to a girl

    I have the feeling that I need a relationship to replace the one I just got out of. How do fight this feeling and be more indifferent

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    Default Re: how to not need to always be yalking to a girl

    Talk to more women!!!! And that's a stage that everyone goes through when they end a relationship with someone they care about. You have to get rid of everything that reminds you of her( yes even that secret underwear collection you've been secretly collecting throughout the years).<--------- lmao the parenthesis was a joke
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    Default Re: how to not need to always be yalking to a girl

    But see the thing is the more women I talk to the more I feel like I need to talk to them. I love talking to women but I don't want to need to talk to them.

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    Default Re: how to not need to always be yalking to a girl

    You do indeed need a new relationship , a relationship full of farking that is . No matter what anyone says , i dont think we ever get over our exes, we shared something special(good/bad) with each and every one of them that is irreplaceable. We learn to live with the fact that they are gone for good and sometime life bring them back in randomly to stay or for a quickie

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    Default Re: how to not need to always be yalking to a girl

    This is a very good thread. I am currently exploring this myself after going through somewhat of an emotional breakdown. I honestly don't think there is really any middle ground on this issue, though in a month I won't have time for a relationship of any kind or dating so I'm just getting myself used to solitude now (google the difference between loneliness and solitude).
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    Default Re: how to not need to always be yalking to a girl

    What do you hope to accomplish when you get used to solitude??
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    Default Re: how to not need to always be yalking to a girl

    Survey says... You don't need a new relationship start with a dozen MLTRs and go from there
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    Default Re: how to not need to always be yalking to a girl

    what's MLTRs? ( I have to write more so I can post this)

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    Multiple long term relationships
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    Default Re: how to not need to always be yalking to a girl

    You just have to learn about validation. Relationships do a whole lot to your ego. Its an ego boost. You kind of rely on that to get you through tough times. Its usually easier to just think "well, I'm feeling down about something, but at least I've got a GF who loves me." It sort of becomes a coping mechanism.

    Here's some stuff you gain from relationships that you must learn that you can gain from other stuff.

    - Attention from the opposite sex
    - Superiority over other single men
    - The feeling that you are needed
    - Knowing you will have someone to hang/talk with whenever

    You can easily get this from other women as HTExtra stated. Its not about not needing women. Its just realizing what you get from women emotionally. Eventually, the MLTR will lead you to a state where you don't need the validation anymore.
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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