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Thread: Texting, time for attraction?

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    Default Texting, time for attraction?

    I went out on a date last night with this cute girl. The date was phenomenal, and at the end I had to drive her to the port authority bus terminal in NY so she could catch the 12:05 bus.

    Anyway, this morning I texted her the following conversation.
    Me: Hey Misses Smiles!!
    Me: It was nice meeting you last night.
    HER: Thanks for the invite.

    Now, I want to ask her out again, however I am not sure where I stand. I think I need to attract her more. Am I correct in my thinking? If so, I am thinking of texting her something about ice cream. I know she likes ice cream, and she likes to eat ice cream for breakfast, like I do, she said that on the date. I recorded the date on my iPhone with an app. So I like to go over it.

    Any ideas, any text suggestions?

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    Default Re: Texting, time for attraction?

    Depends on the interaction, but for the time being take a step back. Let the date sink in for her. Give it like a day or 2 before you talk to her again. Then the next time you contact her go for another meetup.

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    Default Re: Texting, time for attraction?

    OK, taking a step back is probably a good idea.

    I was thinking of asking for another meetup myself, but I am still taking some time to ask again. I think on Tuesday I will ask her again. The thing is, do I need to build attraction as well? I am thinking of saying "you'll never guess what flavor of ice cream I am eating now"

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    Default Re: Texting, time for attraction?

    When you say building attraction, I assume you mean should you exchange a couple of texts first before you go for the meetup. Yes, indeed do that. Always be trying to build attraction whether that be through Kino, verbally, etc. I would exchange a couple of texts with her and then push for the meetup.

    Quoted from ItsJaySonic:
    You: happy Thursday you little troublemaker
    Her: haha noo not me! happy Thursday!
    You: so that new movie (name) looks pretty intense, I need someone to hold me while I watch it. 8:00 tomorrow night... K thanks
    Her: accept/decline

    See how fun this sounds. Way better than actually asking. Apply this to how you ask her out.

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    Default Re: Texting, time for attraction?

    this is not a bad idea. I just went out last night, I just have to see what works


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