I met this girl through a friend of mine and we have been texting for a month now. We have hung out together at the bar with a group of friends about 4 times, also went to eat with a group of friends together a few times. Two weeks ago we went on a day date where we ate and did several activities. It went amazingly well. She said she wanted to do something again. I tried to set up a date where we could watch a movie and eat at one of our apartments. She initially agreed but then flaked.
Then she left town for a week and all of a sudden things started to seem weird. Now, about 4 days after she got back, I tried to set up a second date today and she told me possibly for tomorrow. I tried to get here to confirm something and she said" I had fun with you and I liked talking and hanging out but I don't want to lead anyone on"
I'm very confused because it seemed very clear that we were both into each other. We had an amazing time on our day date and it seemed to be going very well.
I have heard that she tends to like guys who are assholes. I think I was like that initally but then started to become a little to available/not as much of a challenge and she might have lost attraction.
I still have not responded to her text about "lead anyone on" I still believe I can fix this somehow but I don't know what to say to that text.