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Thread: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    Update:

    It's working guys. I waited till 11am this morning and sent a funny text. Got a good reply 30 mins later. I've been varying the times throughout the day and she was the last to text and I have not responded. I was driving home after work today and saw her walking her dog. We chatted for a couple of minutes and then I was forced to move on due to traffic.

    when we initially met she mentioned how she loves sushi. It came up during one of the texts today and I mentioned this place that is to die for. So I'm planting seeds for the future.

    I read the texting guide and it is helping a lot. I'm thinking maybe I should leave it for tonight and see if by mid day tomorrow she initiates a text. If not I'll start the process over again.

    Is it time to set up a date yet? I'm thinking sushi and then drinks elsewhere. I'm free thurs to sun but think it would be best to block off fri and sat so it looks like I'm really busy.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    Yes, block out Friday and Saturday.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    I think people are misinterpreting what I said. I'm telling him not to text her again because he already texted her. He initiated by sending her a text immediately, and then he's trying to initiate again. The same day. There's nothing wrong with texting a girl the same day, but opening twice the same day can be a problem. That's why instead of reopening I told him to wait a day, and suggested how to go about it in the future. Text her a little after you get her number and use that to have a short convo.

    Yeah, you've definitely built enough comfort. Normally when you open a girl and talk to them, and then see them again later outside of a date (like randomly running into them), it builds quite a bit of comfort and or rapport. Especially if you're doing something. Now's the time to start pushing for a meetup. Girls mainly have plans set for Friday and Saturday night so those are not normally my go to days unless I'm setting up something pretty early in advance. Ultimately, just pick a day though and if the time doesn't match just pick another day.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    Update 2: Date is set for tomorrow, I can handle it from here but will continue to update.

    I've never been a texter but I'm now loving it, it's so easy and quick and really is a bunch of nonsense lol. I'm wondering if I will eventually need to find balance. I used to hate talking on the phone to girls, too time consuming. If I have it my way I'll text forever...but I have a feeling someone is going to tell me otherwise....

    So I'm sure when in a relationship talking on the phone is inevitable, especially the goodnight I love you phone call. But this is the very first time I've set up a date without talking on the phone once. Do I ever need to call when dating?

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    Update 3: first date went extremely well, only thing that could have made it better would have been sex.

    I was faced with a couple small text challenges. Thank god for this site and the texting guide. Since I've met her she has not initiated texting, not once. So after our 1st date I made no contact for 2 days. Still nothing. Once I initiated texting again she was right into it. Also I make a text where there was really nothing to respond to and it went dead till the next day. I ignored where I left off and started with something new. Date 2 is tomorrow.

    Okay so is the girl an annomily or what, not imitating one text??? We made out like crazy on date 1 and she replies within 2-30 mins of all my texts. What gives?

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    We made out like crazy on date 1 and she replies within 2-30 mins of all my texts. What gives?
    she has her own life too bud

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    Update: hit a small roadblock. 2nd date was set for tues. she cancelled at 3pm and didn't give a reason but asked for a raincheck. I keep my cool and pretended like it was no big deal. Had a little fun teasing text back and forth. I ended sayi g the next day would work. She replied that she was t available the next day either and to play it by ear.

    I'm not worried, who knows why, maybe she just got her period. Or perhaps its because school is coming to an end for the summer.

    My question is do I break contact until I hear from her? Or do I wait till sat and see if she's free Sunday?

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    I've gone back and forth on this, but I now believe that a brief text right after getting her number might be the best approach. A brief message that indicates working out a time to get together can establish that you're busy but would like to see her without seeming needy.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    Way past that stage. Please read my latest update 2 above.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    I'm trying not to flood the forums so I've done some digging around.

    I found an interesting response by lilsting "Girls generally don't initiate right away unless you build a hell of a lot of attraction" Maybe that's why she hasn't initiated any texting but is always responsive...

    Funny enough I just found another from lilsting about flaking and how "life happens" and to give it 2-3 days and start sending a few funny texts and push for another date.

    Damn, you know getting a killer job is easier then this sometimes...then again I'm not a hot girl that has tons of options from the opposite sex on a day to day basis. This would be a lot easier if I had 2-3 girls on the go at once.....and that's what I'll be doing this weekend!


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