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Thread: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    sh1t, I think I somehow screwed up. Need your help fast guys!!!

    First date went great, strong connection, laughing, lots in common. Holding hands and walking at the end of the night. French kissing on the beach and again when I walked her home.

    Remember this is the girl that has not initiated texting once but has always responded within 30mins and is witty and playful about it like me.

    Set up a second date on tues, she cancelled with no reason at 3pm and we were to hang out at 7. She said "raincheck?" I said how about same time tomorrow night. She said "tomorrow doesn't' work for me either, lets play it by ear?" I made some joke about her being overly excited to see me and need a few days to cool down. I let 2 days go by with no contact. Started texting again. She just started a new job blah blah blah. This was Friday and I said I was heading out soon. She wouldn't tell me what her new job was but I could get hints if I answered some questions (same trick I pulled on her about our second date). The questions were all personal, like favourite food, drink, car and my last name. I got back to her the next day and only answered two (car and food) and made a joke about her new job as a circus performer.

    Here is where I think I screwed up. Since day one I've never called her and texting has not been fun for me because it literally feels like she waits 25-30 mins on purpose to respond. Well my final text said "It's time for some sushi, join me tomorrow evening. You've gotta try the ichi roll". It's been like 8 hrs and no response. I'm playing it cool and I know she working this new job tonight and I need to relax.

    Alright now somebody is going to tell me to move on and find another girl. Believe me when I said I'm looking for as many as possible. But I do want to bang her and also learn from this.

    So what do I do if the following happens;

    A- she never responds to that text
    B- she responds but says she's not available tomorrow night

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    A- she never responds to that text
    wait for her to initiate, move on as you said we would say

    B- she responds but says she's not available tomorrow night
    tell her to let you know when she's free (legitly say that - cause she sounds extremely busy (edit: starting a new job is pretty hectic)), all in all if she wants to be with you and you want to be with her then you both will make the efforts for it

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    I now know where I went wrong after reading "The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game"

    She texted me early today. "hey sorry for getting back to you so late, I've got plans for tonight but lets definatley go out this week!"

    My mistake was I'm not giving her options or asking when she's free. The first time I must have gotten lucky because it worked. Basically I'v been texting things like "join me for this, tomorrow at this time, it's going to be fun". She's mid 20's, hot and probably got lots going on.

    I also realized after reading the book why she flaked on our 2nd date. I've always keept the 2nd date as a surprise date. Its usually bowling and I make a little game out of it by providing clues. This has always worked....but I've never done it on a daygame girl before. She tried to guess and after failing I got a text that said something like "i refuse to go until i know exactly what I'm getting myself into lol".

    So I learned valuable lessons. 1. just because it worked in the past does not mean it will work again. 2. although we had a fantastic first date the surprise date caused anxiety due to the uncertainty of what we were doing. 3. Don't choose a day for a date, instead find out what she's doing in the next few days and pick a day together.

    Thank you all for your patience, I'm good but my game has holes and you fantastic virtual people are filling them for me.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    No, I say still tell her what day to hang out. Then if shes busy, that's when u find out her schedule. Don't go in asking her when she's free because unless you've built some decent attraction, you'll prolly just end up getting run in circles.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    you'll prolly just end up getting run in circles.
    he's already running in circles with flakes, it's a last resort almost working around her

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    Okay hyp. If that's a last resort then what are my other options? I like what lilsting offered, but aside from that and walking away from it what else can I do?

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    It might be too late to use this technique for your girl, I'm not sure where/how you see her away from your dates, but if I've gone on a date with a girl I've made sure to friend them on fb. If my situation goes awry similar to yours, fb is an avenue where you can make a girl take notice without directing any energy towards them.

    You might post a a cool picture of yourself that many people will "like", this shows youre a popular guy and someone she would want to hang out with. Or make a video of something cool you do and post it. Or just find something funny on youtube that will get your friends to react.

    I used this technique last week when I knew it was a bad idea to send another text. I changed my profile picture to one that had gotten me a lot of "likes" on match.com. 32 people ended up "liking" it on fb 2/3rds of which were girls. Guess who the 32nd person who "liked" it was...the girl I was interested in. It works, if youre thoughtful and creative.

    Other ways to earn her attention and respect would be if you have a class with her or if you know any of her friends. Winning friends over will pay dividends when they tell her how much they like you.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    ^ as Ninja suggested, you can keep asking her to join you until she finally says yes (up to you - i wouldn't), you can blatently ask her when she is free (which is what i'd go with given the number of flakes already) and then if she still leaves it open ended, try again in a week or two, and if she still doesn't wanna chill, why bother?


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