sh1t, I think I somehow screwed up. Need your help fast guys!!!
First date went great, strong connection, laughing, lots in common. Holding hands and walking at the end of the night. French kissing on the beach and again when I walked her home.
Remember this is the girl that has not initiated texting once but has always responded within 30mins and is witty and playful about it like me.
Set up a second date on tues, she cancelled with no reason at 3pm and we were to hang out at 7. She said "raincheck?" I said how about same time tomorrow night. She said "tomorrow doesn't' work for me either, lets play it by ear?" I made some joke about her being overly excited to see me and need a few days to cool down. I let 2 days go by with no contact. Started texting again. She just started a new job blah blah blah. This was Friday and I said I was heading out soon. She wouldn't tell me what her new job was but I could get hints if I answered some questions (same trick I pulled on her about our second date). The questions were all personal, like favourite food, drink, car and my last name. I got back to her the next day and only answered two (car and food) and made a joke about her new job as a circus performer.
Here is where I think I screwed up. Since day one I've never called her and texting has not been fun for me because it literally feels like she waits 25-30 mins on purpose to respond. Well my final text said "It's time for some sushi, join me tomorrow evening. You've gotta try the ichi roll". It's been like 8 hrs and no response. I'm playing it cool and I know she working this new job tonight and I need to relax.
Alright now somebody is going to tell me to move on and find another girl. Believe me when I said I'm looking for as many as possible. But I do want to bang her and also learn from this.
So what do I do if the following happens;
A- she never responds to that text
B- she responds but says she's not available tomorrow night