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Thread: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

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    Default Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    Okay, I was out walking my dog and this girl that lives in the hood (early 20's) was walking her's too. They stopped to smell each other. I was doing my daygame routine and closed by asking her to join me for a drink later in the week. Exchanged numbers and talked for a bit longer. Sent a quick hi on the spot so she had my number too.

    Okay, should I send her a funny text later today so I stay fresh in her mind? If so what should I say? I'm rusty with texting and need some advice. She's a hottie but doesn't act like it.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    No don't send her a text. People make it seem like girls are stupid. She'll remember you tomorrow bro, relax. Next time, instead of sending her your number on the spot. Wait a little while (like an hour) and then send her a text. I'll normally send something like this

    Hey, this is (name). Save my number, it's the most important number you'll ever get ... Based on how she responds I'll either ignore her next text or have a short convo.

    Btw congrats on the successful approach. Keep practicing my friend!

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    There are different opinions on this matter,but i believe that the sooner you text her the better,because i use texting to tease and flirt,basically being cocky funny.

    If you wait too much,it would be awkward if you just send her a funny message out of the blue - dlv.
    If you start introducing yourself and reminding her of the day you walked with a dog and bla bla... - DLV.

    It would be just fine if you get home and send her something funny to get her used to your texting style for the future.
    Remember to keep your message short and funny.Texting is for teasing,not for long conversations...

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    Not going to knock the previuous idea but I think girls will forget you or will forget you were going to contact them. I either text them right after I get the number and better while they are still there.
    What you need will not come quickly. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS WHAT YOU FEAR. Take comfort that what you seek is there. But you will NEVER have it if you keep being a p$ssy.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    There are definitely differing opinions when it comes to when to text a girl.

    I usually go out at night and get a girls number, and if that is the case, I always send something sooner rather than later. That's just my best approach and it works for me.

    Why I do it is to remind her of the emotional connection we initially had. I don't mean I send a girl a text THAT exact minute, but it helps keep her emotional connection fresh in her mind... for instance, clearly u are walking ur dogs so they can go potty.

    I would of texted her a few hours later saying, "finally just got home cause (insert dog name) had to mark his territory all over (insert town/hood/city name)."



    Again, it all really depends on how you can work things. I have a friend who literally waits days to text a girl and he almost is never successful in setting things up because of that.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    Okay I read all of these over and it makes perfect sense. But I feel like I dropped the ball already. Once I got her number I immediately said "I'll fire you a quick text so you know who it is". My lame ass text was "hi dog friend". I know I know, really that's all that came to mind. So now I know what to do for next time. Wait an hour and fire something funny off.

    Now that you guys have the full story.....do I wait till tomorrow or send a funny one liner now? We met 5 hrs ago.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ra1d View Post
    There are different opinions on this matter,but i believe that the sooner you text her the better,because i use texting to tease and flirt,basically being cocky funny.

    If you wait too much,it would be awkward if you just send her a funny message out of the blue - dlv.
    If you start introducing yourself and reminding her of the day you walked with a dog and bla bla... - DLV.

    It would be just fine if you get home and send her something funny to get her used to your texting style for the future.
    Remember to keep your message short and funny.Texting is for teasing,not for long conversations...
    Yep its as with anything its a tool, if you know how to use the tool it can be beneficial but if you think you can abuse it then you got another thing coming.

    Sounds like your ok as far as texting her..its really early in the initial stages and that shoudlnt matter too much.

    However as casual as you met her you should take her on a "casual" date at first to keep things comfortable.

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    You're fine. When I pull a number at I do two things: (1) pull out my phone and have the HB enter the number herself, and (2) I send her a text with a nickname right away with the excuse that she'll have my number. Both of these techniques are used to reduce fake numbers and also build comfort.

    You basically did exactly what I just described, so you're fine. Now wait until tomorrow or tonight and send a fun, flirty text her way.

    I'm of the opinion that you should always send texts within a couple hours. If you get a number at the bar, text at the end of the night. Most AFCs work on a 2 or 3 day rule. The truth is that a 2 or 3 day rule is just a method of showing false confidence. You have more to lose than to gain from not texting early.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    this post realy helped me
    my txt game is shocking, I always come across dull but during my reading a girl I numberclosed last night txt me with "do you remember who I am and how are you" I replied with "yeah your ***** the girl who was buying my attention with drinks last night"
    a bit of cocky funny and blanked the question of how I am, to my surprise it had a great reaction.
    thanks!!

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    Default Re: Daygame, got number today....should I send a text later today?

    Duke is right.

    when you get a girls number you need to strike while the iron is hot and build a little attraction as a foundation. Trust me, hot girls will forget you if you leave it 2 days before texting them.

    You've built attraction don't let it die out. I normally just buzz their phone after they enter their number into mine. I send a text either later in the day or the very next day. I don't bombard them just one or two funny back and fourths, and that's all.

    It's like a fire, I build and nurture it in it's infancy then back-off once it's practically self-sustaining, coming back to it when I want to.


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