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    Default my gf doesn't get jealous

    she doesnt get jealous at all never once have a seen or heard her say anything about it. i do especially since she hangs out with this guy that really likes her just about every day. shes planning a surprise birthday party for him and he gave her a massage yesterday. she got really mad at me because i was not ok with him touching her. some times when she says she is going to bed ill figure out later that she stayed up another 2 hours with him on the phone. they have lunch a lot and some times dinner and he cooks for her. she says he is just a friend although she told me she likes him. if it was any other girl i would of broken up with them by now. but this one is very important to me. any help guys?
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: my gf is very different than me

    You're jealous because this behavior isn't normal platonic friendship behavior. I wouldn't be surprised if she is cheating on you. I'd call her out on it and then I'd start looking at other options, because this isn't going to end well for you at this point. Find girls to hang out with and start making yourself more available.
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    Default Re: my gf is very different than me

    ive started looking. shes done this thing before. the thing that made her this way was when she said i was her everything and i was kinda stunned so i didnt know how to reply ever since then she has been really guarded and hanging out with other guys friends a lot more
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: my gf is very different than me

    I agree w/ TheDuke. My ex gf acted the same way with a so called "friend." Friend turned out to be an ex bf of hers that she would hang out with and she would ALWAYS reassure me that nothing was going on. She ended up having sex with him and telling him she still loves him.

    Follow your gut when it tells you something's not right. Get out of there, man.

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    Default Re: my gf is very different than me

    yea i know i should i cant bring myself to do it. i wish i could because it makes me really mad when she does that and she acts like she doesnt understand how it makes me upset.
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: my gf is very different than me

    dude she is most likely cheating on you. you are uncomfortable because your gut is telling you something is wrong. At this point the more you chase her the more it will push her away....spend time with other people make yourself less available to her or just seem always busy. Spend more time with other girls and have fun. At the moment she does not appreciate you or respect you. you have to seem like you don't care but also don't be a d$ck about it. see unaffected and go about your life

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    Default Re: my gf is very different than me

    What I saw outta just reading your initial post Hopeful were these words... Hanging everyday, Massages, Late Night Convos, Dinners where he cooks. All things where predominantly a boyfriend should be filling these roles. You said she's important to you? In what ways? It sounds to me she's living the best of both worlds because you allow it. Are you supporting this chick financially?

    Any woman who's investing more into another man is with that man. Just simple logic bro.

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    Default Re: my gf doesn't get jealous

    well she kinda lives in new york now. so i cant do any of those things with her. but i got irritated at her for him and she said i was being a big baby over nothing.
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: my gf doesn't get jealous

    You shouldnt put yourself through this. You told her it hurts you, she told you not to be a baby? Clearly not the girl for you, not to be disrespectful. Anyone who spends that much time with another man, while not respecting the actual boyfriends needs to be hung to dry. Respect is huge in a relationship. Id have a stern talk with her and re-evaluate things my friend!

    Remember, you are the prize not her. If she wants to go be a terrible girlfriend and spend time with some chump, let her. Go leave her and get your hands on a much better woman. Remain alpha as fuuarrrrrk

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    Default Re: my gf doesn't get jealous

    well she kinda isnt talking to me to much today. yesterday we had a great day and everything was going fine ( she even told me her dad was in the hospital. she doesnt like even telling me something that personal) so i handled it great and we talked and texed for a few hours. well she then said she was going to her sisters wedding with some other guy and acted like it was no big deal. i got mad and ruined the night.
    im on a different level


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