Re: my gf is very different than me
What I saw outta just reading your initial post Hopeful were these words... Hanging everyday, Massages, Late Night Convos, Dinners where he cooks. All things where predominantly a boyfriend should be filling these roles. You said she's important to you? In what ways? It sounds to me she's living the best of both worlds because you allow it. Are you supporting this chick financially?
Any woman who's investing more into another man is with that man. Just simple logic bro.
Tough love but ya need it because we all have made that mistake before.
If you hesitate, you masterbate