Re: need BF detector
Facebook is a nice indicator of whether she's in a relationship or not. Here's what I have learned through my experiences:
1. If it is set to "In a Relationship", but there is no defined person, then that usually means there is no bf or gf. The reason someone would do this is to just keep strangers and other unwanted people off their backs.
2. If it is set to "In a Relationship" and there is a defined person, then it requires a slight bit of observation. If there is a man, or woman, clearly defined and there with her, then she's off limits. If it seems more like the two are friends and that what is going on is simply fun and games on Facebook, then she is a go.
3. If it is set to "It's Complicated", it usually means there is no partner, and the person is either holding themselves back from a relationship for God knows what reasons, or they are simply very dramatic or mellow.
In the end, you shouldn't even have to worry about things like these. As long as she isn't using the boyfriend as a method to try and get you away from her, it's all fair game. All you need to do is just as the others here have said: forget about it.
On another thought, if the boyfriend doesn't exist, this might be a Sh1t Test. However, that is really extreme and stupid for someone to do, so I wouldn't even bother with that theory.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X