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    Abie23 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Dating, and getting a 2nd date

    Over the past few months I've been trying to go out on dates and get a GF. I've been on like 6 first dates that went very well. However I am having a major problem, I can't get a girl out on a second date. I am trying to figure out, what do I do to change?

    After the first date goes well, I decide it's time to text message the girl. The thing I always do is I try to flirt. Examples:

    "Hey giggle goose. Last night was a very nice and fun evening."
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    "Hey Misses smiles!! It was nice meeting you last night."
    Her reply: "Thanks for the invite"

    "Hey Giggle goose!! Where are we going next week since we are meeting in your hood I am expecting you to blow me away with an amazing second date. "
    Her: "Giggle goose?! thats a new one haha."
    (this was the only one who I was going to go out on a 2nd date with. But she had to cancel our 2nd date, and we never went out after that.)
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    I tried to flirt with each one, the only successful flirt here was the third one. Having said that, The one that was a successful flirt was with a girl who was 22 years of age. The other girls were all a little older, 25 or 26. Does age have something to do with it?

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    Default Re: Dating, and getting a 2nd date

    If someone called me giggle goose or missus smiles, I don't think I would message back. It's kind of condescending. Particularly if it was the older women who weren't responding to it well.
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    Abie23 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Dating, and getting a 2nd date

    Ok. Thats a fair point. What should I change then? What could I do different. Do I need to do the attraction phase more?

    What about on the date giving them that nickname, then bring it back up when I text them?

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    Default Re: Dating, and getting a 2nd date

    A nickname can be completely random, but works best if you're linking to something she likes or something she'll be able to instantly recognize. Definitely give girls a nickname a person when you gotta chance. Stating again through text will only makes things more personal between the two of you. Honestly speaking, the dates must have not gone all that well if you're not able to get D2's. Sure things may have seemed smooth, but it depends on a few essential things. Was it fun, Kino, escalation, etc. Or was it just boring small talk. You should always be trying to to build as much attraction as possible because that will ALWAYS reduce the chance of flakiness.

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    Default Re: Dating, and getting a 2nd date

    Quote Originally Posted by lilsting View Post
    A nickname can be completely random, but works best if you're linking to something she likes or something she'll be able to instantly recognize. Definitely give girls a nickname a person when you gotta chance. Stating again through text will only makes things more personal between the two of you. Honestly speaking, the dates must have not gone all that well if you're not able to get D2's. Sure things may have seemed smooth, but it depends on a few essential things. Was it fun, Kino, escalation, etc. Or was it just boring small talk. You should always be trying to to build as much attraction as possible because that will ALWAYS reduce the chance of flakiness.
    In terms of building attraction, that is a major weakness of mine. so I will have to try and improve that the next time I go on on a date.


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