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    Default Talked to this girl for a month - hooked up now seems less interested?

    Hmm, well this is a weird one. Was talking to this random girl on facebook for about a month. We'd talk/text daily and flirt id say 80% of the time. Of course we had stuff in common and would talk about that and everything as well. Anyways we talked on the phone alot too. We both wanted to chill so i was down and she wanted to sleep over? So i said okay. Well she came over the other night and was all touchy feely with me trying to steal my phone and stuff like that so i was like this is gonna be easy :P Anyways i macked her pretty quick but i wasnt sure if i wanted to actually hook up cuz i kinda liked her didnt wanna go too fast. She was quite persuasive and kept trying n trying so i finally gave in. Anyways after bout 5 mins later i think she was mad at me for somethin but seemed good after i fixed the situation but she was tired n wanted to sleep. She was rly annoying while sleeping kept snoaring and i usually stay up late due to work so i dont sleep til like 7 am and i was bored kept trying to wake her up and what not but she always kept goin back to sleep. She woke up in tyhe morning rolled over and started grinding on me and we were foolin around for a bit. Anyways we got food and i wanted to continue but she had to go home earlier then she thought cuz of her mom LOL i was like yeah okay excuses excuses like playfully i was like u jus dont wanna hook up. Shes like nooo! and we started again for a bit but she had to go before we could finish, shes like nexst time. I walked her to her bus and she wanted me to text her til she got home so she wouldnt get lost which i did. However i found her texts kinda odd like not as flirt or long as b4 so i was like w.e n passed out. That night i texted her telling her she left her charger here and we texted for about 20 mins but again she wasnt rly flirty or anything so i thought it was weirde but didnt mention it. Last night i texted her like "hows ur nervs for the game tonight? ;P" cuz hockey was on and wed ALWAYS text durin it and she responded a couple times but again more "friendly" and not flirty or somethin. I was plannin on tellin her id cazll her tomorrow night but didnt wanna double text when she stopped respondin n said fuck it. That night she didnt hit me back durin the game but was postin on fb about it i thought it was weird. Usually id let the girl come to me in this situation but shes the type that never texts first im sure lots of guys try to get her shes pretty hot. So today i hit her up like "hey im thinkin about calling u when i get home tonight if ull be hom eand shes like "yeah i probably will be" but didnt text back after. Not sure what i should do here seems like something might have turned her off or she only wanted to hit it? Hmm...

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    Default Re: Talked to this girl for a month - hooked up now seems less interested?

    Back off, give her some space, don't text or call her for a week.

    Don't chase her. As you said you usually let the girls come to you. Don't change your game whether she is a HB6 or HB9.

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    Default Re: Talked to this girl for a month - hooked up now seems less interested?

    That wasn't my game with her tho she likes when guys chase after her n she told me on the phone she never texts first. I just know something is def off she's never a big texter but when she did it was always flirty n shit now seems bland. Part of me wants to back off but part of me wants to know if it was just a one off so I'll stop thinking bout her n move on.

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    Default Re: Talked to this girl for a month - hooked up now seems less interested?

    Girls will say that. Once you begin chasing them they will withdraw.

    Even when you farked her , you did this in your own words:

    " i wasnt sure if i wanted to actually hook up cuz i kinda liked her didnt wanna go too fast. She was quite persuasive and kept trying n trying so i finally gave "

    When you pushed her away you got her. Now you are trying to pull her in and she pushing herself away.

    If you want any relationship to die just crowd her space, smother her, then when she doesn't call or text you just text her a bunch of times a day and call her asking why she is ignoring you.

    I am not saying that's what you did but that's what an AFC will do.

    If you want her back ignore her until she texts or calls you back.

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    Default Re: Talked to this girl for a month - hooked up now seems less interested?

    Well I had her the hole time but I do see what ur saying so I'll think carefully bout what I should do since I implied I'd call her. Thanks tho.


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