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    Default helppp I GOT MAD!!!!

    Alright guys this is a long one but I am going to give you much details as I can! So ok me and this girl we started talking about a year ago I convinced her to go to prom with me but that was it we did not Kiss we would always fight and She personally said she didnít like me but her best friend said she did ( I am now best friends with her best friend =) )

    soooo! ok so we just recently started talking she had a bf and I waited it out and finally he broke up with her and everything but she would ALWAYS talk about him but she would always call me late at night and everything I flirted with her a lot we started skyping and even once we started talking about masturbation and even her boobs once I was negging her how I love blue eyes ( she has green) and she was like AH and I was like I love blonde girls and she has brown hair and then she asked do you like boobs? ( she had DD +) and while she asked me if I liked boobs she grabbed hers and was like do you like boobs!!! and everything I was like wow so we started just flirting online and everything like if she flicked me off I would say ohhhhh you wannna do it? Or stuff like that and she wud laugh it off or pretend to be mad and turn the camera off,

    So after school got out for me she asked if I could come pick her up from work! so I did and I havenít seen her in like an ear so we hung out for a bit it was about 11 pm and we went to McDonalds got a apple pie thing ate it we drove to her house I got out and gave her a hug she seemed upset? Like a frown face? (Maybe she wanted a kiss?)

    Anyways so time went by we always flirted I was like were going to have a Skype date tonight (she asked to get on Skype the day before but I said maybe later and then it was too late) and she said sure basically, so here is where it gets tricky!!! Stay with me!!! Ok so were on our Skype date and she was saying stuff and I was like GUESS who I talked to!! And she said Hector! I was like wtf because I did and she was like ya I talk to him all the time we Skype and everything all the time were like best friends (she made me jealous for some reason and mad) and I said I have to go after 5 minutes after that... so I talked to hector he said he didnít have Skype and he didnít even have the internet!!! SO SHE IS BUSTED!

    But it was too late I was pissed off I thought the Skype thing was our thing I KNOW!! AFC move ik ik =( but ok so texted her and was like I have a question, so I really like this girl and I want to ask her on a date should I ask her on the phone or like send her flowers asking her ( trying to make it seem like itís her I am talking about but I wasnít) and OFC she says WHOO!!! and I said someone I went to school with and she said ( our school) Crete?? and I was like it doesnít matter what should I do and She gave me some advice on how to ask a girl to be my gf I was like I am not trying to make her my gf just want a date and she thatís lame and I said not in college =). (She is still in High school) and then!!!!!!!!!! she didnít answer she went to bed for sure so I was like ( before I say this she was saying I am so weird because she flicked me off on the camera on our Skype date so I was like ahhh I know sigh language so u want to do that the next time we hang out? she said UR so weird) so anyways I said I think I am so weird to you because I donít care about you anymore but when it comes to me and this girl itís crazy we always smile when we see each other and I stopped talking to her for like 4 months and it was the last day of school so I had to see her so I waited by her class in the hallway and once she saw me she smiled and I said thereís my girl =) and she gave me a hug it was crazy ( this is the girl is not the same girl donít loose me) so the girl that I texted ( the little cute story) she replied OHHH, and I said why do you act like that! And she said well you did just say you didnít care about me.... so I said do you like me? She said no but caring and likening are different if u died today I wud be said. And I was like I didnít mean it like that!! And then I was like stop being a bitch you know what I meant. and then we got in a huge FIGHT I was like I ask you one simple question and u get all mad and BLAH and I was like GROW the fuck up and everythinggggg IK IK guys!! SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO now you know some of it what do I do does she seem like she likes me? WHAT I AM SO CUNFUSED ( so like I said I am best friends with her best friend and the next day he messaged me ( heís gay donít worry) saying Why were you mean to HER! she already told him!!!) and I said my story and he said this Honestly that's all your fault. You don't deserve to be her friend and if she ever talks to you again then you should feel lucky because you were bitch. Please answer the questions! Should I text her saying sorry I was under a lot of stress and stuff or WHATTTT and do you think she likes me or what I am so confused

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    Default Re: helppp I GOT MAD!!!!

    this explanation of what happened is like watching a massive smoke cloud of people fighting in cartoons :P

    forget about the girl that you had the argument with and said she doesn't like you - edit: if she's important she'll find a way back into your life

    don't buy the chick anything that you wanna date (subjective to the person giving the advice)

    if you're guilty and feel the need to apologise, only do it once and that's all, you have a lot to learn my friend

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    Default Re: helppp I GOT MAD!!!!

    Seeing as how you have posted this on at least 2 threads [ADMIN NOTE: He Got Banned For That] I would say that you are very hung up on this girl. IF that is the case then your chances of getting her are very slim. She will see that she can have you(Cat String Theory. I know its old school but true.) and she will get bored of you and move on. So now that I see how attached you are to her(thats how you come off on here anyways) I would say that just as the previous poster said apologize if you were in the wrong. Once things get back to normal with her go no contact for a few days. She will then start to chase you(If you have done it right that is).
    Any of you guys in the Dayton Oh area let me know and we will sarge.

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    Default Re: helppp I GOT MAD!!!!

    I agree with hyp but with the apology don't.why is she baiting you like that she knows you like her.the post was kinda long but the jealousy aspect caught my attention.you need to spend more time if you will reading article sources on this site.start making new 'girlfriends'.talk to this one when the opportunity arises.she knows your were jealous theres is too much evidence to mask that fact.start opening your options a little bit

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    Default Re: helppp I GOT MAD!!!!

    idk HardRock, saying " I don’t care about you anymore but when it comes to me and this girl it’s crazy we always smile when we see each other and I stopped talking to her" is a pretty hurtful thing, that deserves an apology, cause if anyone said it to me they'd be out of my life forever, it's dog and he's a c___t, figure the letters

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    Default Re: helppp I GOT MAD!!!!

    Ok so were on our Skype date and she was saying stuff and I was like GUESS who I talked to!! And she said Hector! I was like wtf because I did and she was like ya I talk to him all the time we Skype and everything all the time were like best friends (she made me jealous for some reason and mad) and I said I have to go after 5 minutes after that... so I talked to hector he said he didnít have Skype and he didnít even have the internet!!! SO SHE IS BUSTED!
    kat showed too much jealousy which may kill the effect of an apology right now.Theres nothing wrong with apologies.if done in the right context they help.So therefore theres nothing wrong with what you said but am really saying due to his dynamics and the fact that he was jealous and also waited till now is not really the best.

    " I donít care about you anymore but when it comes to me and this girl itís crazy we always smile when we see each other and I stopped talking to her"
    yep saying that can be a pretty hurtful thing.but in this case trust me the damage has been done.and like i said even though apologizing is not a bad thing waiting and apologizing now may not work that well..He may take other measures to put this in place.

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    Default Re: helppp I GOT MAD!!!!

    If he's still able to read this,I would agree with hyp and make a "cold apology".

    Something like : "Hey,I just wanted to apologize for last time,I won't bother you anymore,but i felt like shit after saying that".

    And then just go no contact,even if she responds.Unless she starts being obviously needy,don't respond.

    Be cool if you see her in school though,not too much attention,just standard."Hey,what's up ?","Cool,nice seeing you",then walk with other people,if she keeps talking to you,talk to her,just don't get carried away.

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    Default Re: helppp I GOT MAD!!!!

    Cold apologies when not relevant can set you back in game huge.some girls i know i have talk to about these kind of apologies.They are simply turned off by this cuz it makes them wonder why now.they don't tell me this directly but after small talk you can tell something like that went down.especially after they reveal thier thoughts and common trends they see is potentials suitors or boyfriend.sometimes taken a certain action or handling yourself in a certain way helps.i'll say cold aplogizing in this situation with this dynamic is kinda wussy.

    its ok to aplogize to women in general but in this situation

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    Default Re: helppp I GOT MAD!!!!

    I am back no biggie, but okay i said i was sorry i waited about 3 days, thee around 8ish i texted her saying "i think i owe you a sorry" was typing a message to send saying sorry and she texted me even before i can send the 2nd message saying "ya lol i think so"or something lke that so i said " i been really stressed out and you made me mad and i am sorry i took it all out on you" she replied Its okay i was stressed and mad at too!" sooooooooooooooooooo ooooo

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    Default Re: helppp I GOT MAD!!!!

    I am back no biggie, but okay i said i was sorry i waited about 3 days, thee around 8ish i texted her saying "i think i owe you a sorry" was typing a message to send saying sorry and she texted me even before i can send the 2nd message saying "ya lol i think so"or something lke that so i said " i been really stressed out and you made me mad and i am sorry i took it all out on you" she replied Its okay i was stressed and mad at too!"
    Your indirect apology which is not bad at all kind of worked because the dynamics was in a situation where she has been thinking of you.She even used your words as her apology which is good.But in the future at least you didn't do this but its not best practice to apologize(cold) in situations like this.it depends on the dynamic though.

    For now she is attracted to you. need to kiss her at least if you haven't.This will avoid you getting in the greyzone .you may update this thread.

    Escalation is a very important.Don't wait too long.be safe!!Peace


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