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    Default How do I answer this email from POF ??

    How do I answer this ???

    Saw this girl online I used to see her on clubs like 15 years ago never had the balls to go up and talk to her she pops up on POF and I send her a message she responds back with this message:


    "Thanks for the nice email Michael. A guy who likes Buffy is rare, but it's nice to hear another adult other than myself watched it! that show had a good sense of humor, Twilight takes itself too seriously, and that acting is awful! Especially Kristen Stewart, hate her...

    My favorite horror movie is The Shining, thoses twin girls were the creepiest!! red-rum! lol

    I'm from Richmondtown, lived there til I moved out here 12 years ago. We do seem to have much in common, but I have to be honest and tell you I started seeing someone I met on this site a few weeks ago. Not sure it's going anywhere, and if it doesn't I'll drop you a line..

    XXX"

    Well for one she must be enticed or she wouldn't of answered it or maybe she is just being nice.

    How do I send a response and keep myself in the game and not land in the friend zone ???

    Any help would be greatly appreciated I got a chance with her and I want to capitalize on it.

    Zoomer

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    Default Re: How do I answer this email from POF ??

    This is uncanny, I was talking just last night with my new partner about buffy and twilight... I've not known her long, though. We met on pof, saw we both lived in richmon.... wait, what the?? LOL only joking.

    Ok, interesting situation. It really is hard to tell if she's genuinely interested or just being polite.

    Firstly I would suggest posting your initial message up here. I know it's embarrassing but it's hard to guide with only half the information.

    There are things I want to say, But they may not fit in line with how you were with her initially, So I think for now I'm going to save it for when you have posted the rest of the info.

    But for now, DON'T fall into the friend zone, but also don't be too pushy as you might scare her away. Just pray they split up. Hell I'd even say ask her out anyway, in a non pushy way. If they have only recently started seeing each other and she sees a better option, it's easier for her to decide you over him now than it would be later if it goes well between them. So maybe get her out for a friendly coffee or something, but then you're gonna need some serious game.
    Why become someone else when you can become a natural?

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    Default Re: How do I answer this email from POF ??

    Quote Originally Posted by Stigward View Post
    This is uncanny, I was talking just last night with my new partner about buffy and twilight... I've not known her long, though. We met on pof, saw we both lived in richmon.... wait, what the?? LOL only joking.

    Ok, interesting situation. It really is hard to tell if she's genuinely interested or just being polite.

    Firstly I would suggest posting your initial message up here. I know it's embarrassing but it's hard to guide with only half the information.

    There are things I want to say, But they may not fit in line with how you were with her initially, So I think for now I'm going to save it for when you have posted the rest of the info.

    But for now, DON'T fall into the friend zone, but also don't be too pushy as you might scare her away. Just pray they split up. Hell I'd even say ask her out anyway, in a non pushy way. If they have only recently started seeing each other and she sees a better option, it's easier for her to decide you over him now than it would be later if it goes well between them. So maybe get her out for a friendly coffee or something, but then you're gonna need some serious game.
    I really liked what you said in your profile !!

    I am at a loss of words… because you stole my thoughts from me with what you have said in your profile. Buffy yay, True Blood Yay and Twilight Nay. I was at Barnes and Noble the other day and I walked by the Twilight books thinking how much better Buffy is. I wonder if you feel that way too…”

    We share a love of Horror movies too, which is your favorite ??

    You grew up in Staten Island ?? What part ??

    I noticed in your picture that your smile is great - I like that - a great smile.

    Anyways, I hope to hear back from you because we have so much in common and look really interesting.

    Have a nice day !

    Michael

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    Default Re: How do I answer this email from POF ??

    We do seem to have much in common, but I have to be honest and tell you I started seeing someone I met on this site a few weeks ago. Not sure it's going anywhere, and if it doesn't I'll drop you a line..
    lol. don't wait around just for her, she ain't waiting around for you

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    Default Re: How do I answer this email from POF ??

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    We do seem to have much in common, but I have to be honest and tell you I started seeing someone I met on this site a few weeks ago. Not sure it's going anywhere, and if it doesn't I'll drop you a line..
    lol. don't wait around just for her, she ain't waiting around for you
    Yes I agree and I see her online on POF a few times a day so if this guy is all that why is she always checkin

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    Default Re: How do I answer this email from POF ??

    Quote Originally Posted by Zoomer View Post
    Yes I agree and I see her online on POF a few times a day so if this guy is all that why is she always checkin
    Any other suggestions I haven't answered her back and I want to stay in the game with her

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    Default Re: How do I answer this email from POF ??

    Tell her you want to meet up.For now it's just a harmless date,she shouldn't refuse.If she does,move on,don't wait on her...Girls always do that,don't be her puppet.

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    Default Re: How do I answer this email from POF ??

    So I should message her back that I want to meet up with her for coffee ???

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    Default Re: How do I answer this email from POF ??

    Quote Originally Posted by Ra1d View Post
    Tell her you want to meet up.For now it's just a harmless date,she shouldn't refuse.If she does,move on,don't wait on her...Girls always do that,don't be her puppet.
    Well I been talking to her she sends me a messages back I always wait at least a day to answer her -- here are the last 2 chat messages from POF - she is definitely hooked a little but how do I reel her in ???

    Here goes last to chats


    THIS IS ME

    Yeah yeah - it's those girls with those angel eyes - hmm hmm
    I think you just have to try dressing as a flapper and see how it goes - might be fun - maybe have a roaring 20's party - I'll dress up as a gangster and tend bar
    I worked yesterday - I am taking my son to my mom's today
    I'm enjoying our conversations, but I keep wondering what your voice sounds like - can we move this over onto the phone ?

    THIS IS HER
    Angel eyes, lol.. But that is actually a great idea for a costume party! i may have to steal that idea for halloween, easy enough to find a flapper dress, all i have is a flapper style nightie . I'm enjoying our conversations as well, you seem like you're interesting and a lot of fun, so I woukdn't mind chatting on the phone.. But i did mention i'm seeing someone back whennyou initially emailed me.. i don't know if it would be fair to either of you... He never calls me his girlfriend though.. I'm a little conflicted
    over this! i've gotta run anyway, but maybe we can chat later.


    Any help would be great thanks !!
    Zoomer

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    Default Re: How do I answer this email from POF ??

    BTW I haven't answered her back yet


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