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Thread: She replied to opener, what now?

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    Default She replied to opener, what now?

    Hi gents. Ok so I need my first bit of advice. I opened on an HB9 for the 3rd time (learnt some tricks) or so on okcupid with 'you know, your frustration with men is mutual? (She says she's got an I hate men tattoo on her forehead) You're one of them girls who takes ages getting ready on a night out right?'

    She replied quickly saying 'no I take like an hour incl showering'.

    Should I continue pushing her, claiming that I couldn't wait that long or something similar, or should I reward her saying something cheeky but gentlemanly like, 'in that case, you don't have to pay for dinner after all' insert ???

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    Default Re: She replied to opener, what now?

    The dinner line is showing too much interest in her. You've only built a little comfort not attraction so far. I'd go down the teasing route.

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    Default Re: She replied to opener, what now?

    Ok I responded with 'Hmm. Could be quicker. But the effort probably makes up for it. I take it you're still doing your make up in the taxi though.'
    She replied.....'no'
    How do I regain her interest and frankly, her social skills? Lol

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    Default Re: She replied to opener, what now?

    This is nothing to do with her social skills. Your conversation is a little on the boring side, of course she doesn't do her make-up in the taxi. Change the conversation topic... and re-frame

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    Ok thanks. Not quite sure as to what topic and how to regain interest. I'll try some research on the net.

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    Default Re: She replied to opener, what now?

    Did you get her number? I don't think you mentioned it
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: She replied to opener, what now?

    Seems a little early?? I offered my kik to another girl after just a few messages and she hasn't replied. And wasn't even an HB, she contacted me first.

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    Default Re: She replied to opener, what now?

    Here's the update. I blew it. This is what I replied:
    'Hmm, okay lucky you, you get 2 points You can gain a few more if I like your answer to....what's your view on TOWIE?'

    TOWIE is a loosely scripted rubbish reality relationship programme on tv in the UK which is set where both I and the HB are from. She didn't reply.
    What did I do wrong and what could I have done differently?
    Last edited by Johng; 05-20-2013 at 11:51 AM. Reason: Wasn't finished


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