Opened a random girl on FB. We have 32 mutual friends. This whole convo was over the course of like 2 hours. I've been tryna practice my online game via FB, but I can't seem to Number Close. Based on the interaction there clearly wasn't enough comfort built, but how should I have handled it. Here it is:
Me: This is going to sound super weird, but I saw your picture and just had to say that your eyes looks phenomenal!
Her: Haha no worries! Thank you!
Me: I randomly stumbled upon your page and had to say something lol. I'm Lonnie, obviously ..
Her: Well thank you haha I appreciate the compliment! Hi! I'm angel lol
Me: Very nice to meet you Angel .. I take it you go to *XXXXXX* (blanked for privacy, but it's a college campus)? If you do I've never seen you there anyway
Her: Nice to meet you too. And yea I've been going to *XXXXXX* for the last few years now. Haha even if you had seen me around I am a really quiet and shy person.
Me: lol I'm not. I would have introduced myself instantly. I graduated from there a year ago, so I doubt I have seen you. What does an Angel study anyway? Like life sciences or something lol?
Her: I pretty much always have headphone in my ears so it would of been hard for you to introduce yourself haha.. O really? My friend Tim graduated last year too!
I started off studying nursing.. But kinda indecisive right now. Haha
Me: Oh my boy Canada Tim! Cool people right there. lol indecisive.. So you're one of those kind of girls... (was tryna build a little rapport and qualify a little here)
Her: Hahaha yea that Tim! Me and him are good friends! Lol and nah it's not even like that. I know what I want and how to get it. Just have to decide which path to take I guess
Me: I see. I can vibe with that. What is it that you want? I'd guess like pony or something haha
Her: Smh no not a pony haha
Me: aww man, I thought that was every girls dream
Her: Nope haha I'm not every girl so your theory failed lol
Me: lol ok. Prove it! What's the last thing you ate today??
Her: Wtf?! Lmao ummm I ate two pieces of pizza with green chile on it.
Me: LOL green chile, that's so random. Very hispanic too lol. I was looking for chocolate as your answer.. I guess you're not super girly after all
Her: Well I am Hispanic so it's not random where I'm from! Hahahah
And nope... Not a chocolate fan lol
Her again: Sometimes but yea not very girls lol
Me: hah well you're adorable.. I gotta get to sleep for work in the morning. Should your number be in my phone
Her: Haha ummm well thanks...
And well I'm actually talking to someone and I don't feel he would like it or it would be appropriate to give you my number. Especially through Facebook. (I was almost 100% certain this was a shit test based on how she said "especially through FB" and how it wouldn't be appropriate)
Me: He would't, but would you?? Sometimes you gotta take risks. Worse case scenario we exchange a few texts and I end up being a creep, and you delete me lol. No harm done.
Her: I'm just not that comfortable with giving it out on Facebook. (proved it was just a shit test and that not enough comfort was built up)
Me: Ok, that's respectable, no pressure. It means you're not some trashy girl who just randomly hands out her number. Me, I'm much less careful though lol. I see what I want and just go for it. Here's my number XXX-XXX-XXXX. Text me sooner rather than later
I didn't know how to play it at the end so I just went with that. She probably won't text me, but if anything I'm pretty sure if we just maintain steady chat through FB, I'll be able to number close. How would guys have played this?