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Thread: Can't seem to number close on FB :(

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    Default Can't seem to number close on FB :(

    Opened a random girl on FB. We have 32 mutual friends. This whole convo was over the course of like 2 hours. I've been tryna practice my online game via FB, but I can't seem to Number Close. Based on the interaction there clearly wasn't enough comfort built, but how should I have handled it. Here it is:

    Me: This is going to sound super weird, but I saw your picture and just had to say that your eyes looks phenomenal!

    Her: Haha no worries! Thank you!

    Me: I randomly stumbled upon your page and had to say something lol. I'm Lonnie, obviously ..

    Her: Well thank you haha I appreciate the compliment! Hi! I'm angel lol

    Me: Very nice to meet you Angel .. I take it you go to *XXXXXX* (blanked for privacy, but it's a college campus)? If you do I've never seen you there anyway

    Her: Nice to meet you too. And yea I've been going to *XXXXXX* for the last few years now. Haha even if you had seen me around I am a really quiet and shy person.

    Me: lol I'm not. I would have introduced myself instantly. I graduated from there a year ago, so I doubt I have seen you. What does an Angel study anyway? Like life sciences or something lol?

    Her: I pretty much always have headphone in my ears so it would of been hard for you to introduce yourself haha.. O really? My friend Tim graduated last year too!
    I started off studying nursing.. But kinda indecisive right now. Haha

    Me: Oh my boy Canada Tim! Cool people right there. lol indecisive.. So you're one of those kind of girls... (was tryna build a little rapport and qualify a little here)

    Her: Hahaha yea that Tim! Me and him are good friends! Lol and nah it's not even like that. I know what I want and how to get it. Just have to decide which path to take I guess

    Me: I see. I can vibe with that. What is it that you want? I'd guess like pony or something haha

    Her: Smh no not a pony haha

    Me: aww man, I thought that was every girls dream

    Her: Nope haha I'm not every girl so your theory failed lol

    Me: lol ok. Prove it! What's the last thing you ate today??

    Her: Wtf?! Lmao ummm I ate two pieces of pizza with green chile on it.

    Me: LOL green chile, that's so random. Very hispanic too lol. I was looking for chocolate as your answer.. I guess you're not super girly after all

    Her: Well I am Hispanic so it's not random where I'm from! Hahahah
    And nope... Not a chocolate fan lol

    Her again: Sometimes but yea not very girls lol

    Me: hah well you're adorable.. I gotta get to sleep for work in the morning. Should your number be in my phone

    Her: Haha ummm well thanks...
    And well I'm actually talking to someone and I don't feel he would like it or it would be appropriate to give you my number. Especially through Facebook. (I was almost 100% certain this was a shit test based on how she said "especially through FB" and how it wouldn't be appropriate)

    Me: He would't, but would you?? Sometimes you gotta take risks. Worse case scenario we exchange a few texts and I end up being a creep, and you delete me lol. No harm done.

    Her: I'm just not that comfortable with giving it out on Facebook. (proved it was just a shit test and that not enough comfort was built up)

    Me: Ok, that's respectable, no pressure. It means you're not some trashy girl who just randomly hands out her number. Me, I'm much less careful though lol. I see what I want and just go for it. Here's my number XXX-XXX-XXXX. Text me sooner rather than later

    I didn't know how to play it at the end so I just went with that. She probably won't text me, but if anything I'm pretty sure if we just maintain steady chat through FB, I'll be able to number close. How would guys have played this?

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    Default Re: Can't seem to number close on FB :(

    I have found that FaceBook is super hard to close on(For me anyways). I pretty much stopped trying to talk to girls on FB after one girls dad cussed me out. Haha. Its hard on Facebook because it is not meant as a dating site so chicks are gonna be more cautious. Try a site like Meetme, Okcupid, Datehookup, or POF.
    Any of you guys in the Dayton Oh area let me know and we will sarge.

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    Default Re: Can't seem to number close on FB :(

    Facebook is always going to be hard to game on because there are so many disadvantages.

    1) the girls doesnt actually know what you look like/if your profile is actually who you are, could be anyone!

    2) you dont have the use of body language of tone of voice over facebook, so makes it hard to built comfort.

    3) its hard to demonstrate higher value on facebook as she doesnt know if you are the social hub and the alpha male (which you can do in real life) or if you are just some loser.

    I tend to stay away from facebook game, at least opening. If i open a girl in the day, ill sometimes make it quick (e.g 5 mins), and then say ive got to rush off to some important thing blah blah, and get her name, at least then ill add her on facebook and can start working my magic, because she will already have an idea and impression about me and who i am.

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    Default Re: Can't seem to number close on FB :(

    Quote Originally Posted by Zeus101 View Post
    Facebook is always going to be hard to game on because there are so many disadvantages.

    1) the girls doesnt actually know what you look like/if your profile is actually who you are, could be anyone!

    2) you dont have the use of body language of tone of voice over facebook, so makes it hard to built comfort.

    3) its hard to demonstrate higher value on facebook as she doesnt know if you are the social hub and the alpha male (which you can do in real life) or if you are just some loser.

    I tend to stay away from facebook game, at least opening. If i open a girl in the day, ill sometimes make it quick (e.g 5 mins), and then say ive got to rush off to some important thing blah blah, and get her name, at least then ill add her on facebook and can start working my magic, because she will already have an idea and impression about me and who i am.

    -Zeus
    I get you. I usually only use FB to open up completely random girls. Girls I've never met before all in the pursuit of bettering my online/texting game. Im starting to get put off to it now. I'll probably due what odlaw said and start switching to dating websites. sarge in person and online!

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    Default Re: Can't seem to number close on FB :(

    Good idea bro! facebook game has to be played very different to real life game and is a whole new skill in itself, but fun to do from time to time you practise various techniques Good luck!

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