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Thread: How to text a flake to get a meet up

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    Default How to text a flake to get a meet up

    Little background story:
    I picked up this HB8 at Starbucks last Saturday night. I opened with "I saw you couple of seconds ago and I would be kicking myself if I dont come and talk to you." The conversation went great, most of the time she was asking me questions and I answered. Threw couple of negs and dhv a little bit. Turned out she was at Starbucks because her friend asked her out to get a drink and she decided she is too tired because she was with a group of friends all day long and just sat at Starbucks read the whole time. (Typical popular chick with lame flake excuse). I told her if i ever ask her out to a drink I better not find her at Starbucks and she said she probably will end up read at Starbucks. At the end I asked for her number and she said "Whatever" playfully, then I said "you know what" as I put my phone back to my pocket, she stood up and grabbed the phone from my hand and put her number in. Then I left, the conversation was around 5 minutes.

    I called her this Tuesday noon at work asking if she wants to go and grab some dinner, she said sure and asked about my day, everything sounds great so far. Then half hour before we suppose to meet up she texted me saying she is too tired to go, lets eat another day. I was pissed but I texted her sure, just dont let me catch you at Stabucks. Then she texted me something like I ll just go to another coffee shop then hah. And I replied with thanks for letting me know you would cheat on your coffee shop before we even go out. She never texted back.

    Now its Thursday and we had no contact, any suggestions on this chick, I just need a meet up.

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    Default Re: How to text a flake to get a meet up

    Tbh she sounds like she's unreliable. I'd probably just move on here.

    I think you should have shown a bit more annoyance at being flaked on with her. She's not even made a good excuse... I'm too tired is bullsh1t.

    If it were me I probably would have hit her back with something like.. maybe, "I'm pretty busy this week", just like you did when you got her number.

    Honestly though, ditch her, sounds like a time waster.

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    Default Re: How to text a flake to get a meet up

    I agree, you seemed like a bit of a push-over, remember you are trying to act like you are the prize and is what she wants. If she flakes, say she has missed her chance have you have a tight schedule or something, you should have been much more blunt and punishing.

    Leave it a bit to see if she replies, then in a few days maybe say you havent quite forgiven her to flaking on your last time but have a spare 1 hour or 2 in your day if she wants to make ammends, other than that you are going to be busy for a while.

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    Default Re: How to text a flake to get a meet up

    It seems like she's not interested at all, which is why she's pulling out the "too tired" excuse. If she was, I'm pretty sure she would go. You might want to just forget about her and move on to the next HB. She seems like she doesn't really care nor is she putting in any effort with you.

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    Default Re: How to text a flake to get a meet up

    LOL, give it back at her....see how she likes it, but I wouldnt take it at the level as making plans then breaking them.

    Call her up then when shes a bit flirty be like oh well gee Im too tired to continue this conversation....see you at starbucks bye...lol

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    Default Re: How to text a flake to get a meet up

    I do like Dj Chill's idea but I went cut her lose.

    Hope my tragedy doesnt happen to my fellow PUAs

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    Default Re: How to text a flake to get a meet up

    Quote Originally Posted by Dj Chill View Post
    Call her up then when shes a bit flirty be like oh well gee Im too tired to continue this conversation....see you at starbucks bye...lol
    This is an awesome one

    At the end I asked for her number and she said "Whatever" playfully, then I said "you know what" as I put my phone back to my pocket, she stood up and grabbed the phone from my hand and put her number in.
    But THIS was awesome too, good job man
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