Re: next step: phone call?
Well in my opinion you shouldn't look at you two as being "in a relationship" I mean you haven't even spoke to her. She could be a guy for all you know. If you get out of the we are in a relationship Mindset then loosing her will not effect you very much so you decrease your chances of screwing up. As far as when to call her, do it whenever you want. If you wanna call her then do it. I mean action is the only way to learn. Check out my post about Chat Roulette if you have problems keeping a convo going practice on there. If you can keep a girl talking on there for 5 minutes then you are doing pretty good. Hope this helps.
Any of you guys in the Dayton Oh area let me know and we will sarge.