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    ctc0201 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Can't figure out how to reply to this. Could use some help.

    Hey guys, so I use an "ice cream" opener I learned on here when I am sending messages on POF, OKC, etc. I have gotten this message twice and am kinda stumped.

    "No, actually I am lactose intolerant. haha"

    What can I say to this to keep going? Normally I can get an extra 2-3 messages directly from the opener, but I tried to reply to this before and struck out. Thanks

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    Default Re: Can't figure out how to reply to this. Could use some help.

    Quote Originally Posted by ctc0201 View Post
    Hey guys, so I use an "ice cream" opener I learned on here when I am sending messages on POF, OKC, etc. I have gotten this message twice and am kinda stumped.

    "No, actually I am lactose intolerant. haha"

    What can I say to this to keep going? Normally I can get an extra 2-3 messages directly from the opener, but I tried to reply to this before and struck out. Thanks
    What exactly is the 'ice-cream' opener you are using? might help a little bit if i knew exactly what you are saying.

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    Default Re: Can't figure out how to reply to this. Could use some help.

    Hahaha I've had the same problem! I usually just tease them a little and move the conversation along!
    Awkward mornings beat boring nights.

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    urbancowboy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Can't figure out how to reply to this. Could use some help.

    Quote Originally Posted by ctc0201 View Post
    Hey guys, so I use an "ice cream" opener I learned on here when I am sending messages on POF, OKC, etc. I have gotten this message twice and am kinda stumped.

    "No, actually I am lactose intolerant. haha"

    What can I say to this to keep going? Normally I can get an extra 2-3 messages directly from the opener, but I tried to reply to this before and struck out. Thanks
    You don't have follow-up questions in mind? The only place conversations develop organically with any kind of regularity is in the movies. In PUA, you need to always have a road map in mind of how you want the situation to go (online, in person, on the phone, whatever) and plan for as many things as possible. When you get better, you can learn to adapt on the fly. But for now, have a plan. Stick to it, no matter what. This seems stupid and it is. You, however, have no idea if your routine is even any good. (Also assuming your profile is decent.) Once you get some positive responses (eg numbers), then you can worry about what to do when something goes wrong. Because the truth is, a good routine is one that works and produces numbers. It's kinda like they always tell lawyers not to ask a question they don't know the answer to in front of a jury...except the consequences here are a lot less so you just plan for as many different kinds of answers as possible. Probably not the type of help you wanted, but the type you needed. Urbancowboy out!


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