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    Default Some pointers on texting

    There is no set time you should wait to reply to her texts and various techniques work to different people.
    Personally I wouldn't stick to a constant delay time to reply, I tend to play it on how long the girl takes. You dont want to reply straight away as you dont want it to seem like she has your constant attention. On the other hand if she replies quite fast, you dont want to leave it ages each time as this can often fizzle out a convo. Below are scenarios of what i am talking about:

    Scenario 1:
    Me: opener
    (15 min delay) Her: Respone
    (10 min delay) Me: Reply
    (5/10 min delay) Her: Reply
    (5 mins delay) Me: Reply
    Then from here on its a few minutes delay between each text. Its hard the play the game over text as obviously humour is harder and you can't Kino escalate. So I tend to have general conversations trying to get the comfort stage, making her feel comfortable with me and think that im not a threat (just by talking about family, school, work etc.) and i tend to throw in a few dhv stories in at this point aswell. Then depending how well it goes, either after a few hours texting, or a few days of smaller conversations, arrange a date.

    Scenario 2:
    Mepener
    (5 min delay) Her: Response
    (10 min delay) Me: Reply
    (5 min delay) Her: Reply
    Then from here ill go down to the same time delay as her (around 5 mins or so). This scenario is a keen girl and fast replier which is great. Shows she is into you so you can go straight into the comfort stage and DHV stories and should be easy to arrange a date. Make it sound friendly and not so serious though e.g grab a coffee, or want to come help me shopping to buy my sister a present etc.

    Scenario 3:
    Me: opener
    (20 min delay) Her: Response
    (15 min delay) Me: Reply
    (20 min delay) Her: Reply
    (15 min delay) Me: Reply
    (20 min delay) Her: Reply
    This is the worst scenario where she is either actually busy and slow at replying, or just doesnt want to seem keen for whatever reason. In this scenario I try and arrange a date as soon as possible by saying, "Im actually quite busy at the moment and im sure you are too so you want to get a coffee sometime soon?". If she agrees i then wont text until the day of the date.

    Another thing is i never text a girl "hey whats up" or similar as a first text after number-close as its too standard for my liking. This girl i number closed the other day mentioned that she was very fussy when it came down to guys but still ended up with her number, this is how are convo started:

    Me: Here is my number.. Incase you ever want to talk to some guy you cant be fussy about [my name] x
    Her: Ill bear that in mind haha thanks! how are you? x
    Then convo went on for a while then i said ill speak to her soon and said i was going gym.
    A day later or so I then text her with the following
    Me: Dont be too flattered, im just bored in the long car journey you alright? x
    Her: Respect your elders cheeky boy! good thanks you?x (im 19 she is 21)

    As you can see I never text a girl i just met with "hey hows it going" or something like that because obviously she is going to ask who it is. Sometimes im a bit cocky and send a text first saying " hey you alright" to which she replies who is this. I then say "the only guy last night that impressed you" or something along those lines to get a laugh.


    Lastly I never put my number into her phone. If she asks me i say "you arent that lucky, you put your number into my phone and i may decide to drop you a text sometime" with a cheeky smirk. If she says no then ill act like a i dont care aand start talking to someone else, and 9 times out of 10 she will come running back at some point that night and put her number in. You dont want to give her the control of deciding whether or not we talk the next day, so with her number you are in control and you can play your game.

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    Default Re: Some pointers on texting

    Great stuff! something I needed actually as started talking to this HB9/10 and wanted to check if been doing everything alright as she's taking time with the last reply, or maybe googling stuff I was talking about haha though a half Spanish girl not knowing what an Osborne bull is, well that would be surprising

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    Default Re: Some pointers on texting

    Excellent work man, let me know how things go or if you come across any sticking point and ill try to help you out

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    Default Re: Some pointers on texting

    Quote Originally Posted by Zeus101 View Post
    Excellent work man, let me know how things go or if you come across any sticking point and ill try to help you out

    -Zeus
    Right I might have something interesting.

    Met a girl through a friend ages ago and at that time I've added her. Haven't really talked to her as I was seeing my ex. Anyway, recently dropped her a message on fb, about our mutual friend, so we had a silly conversation about things so I've asked her out on sunday, she said she would but 'she even declined' her friends cuz she was ill. Fair do's not gonna dig it. But she said she will be out next weekend for friends bday so if I'm out come and say hello. I've managed to turned it around in the way that now she's the one to find me as apparently she's good at it when drunk. So just before I went, used the trick from here 'you dont seem to be a stalker type so I'm leaning towards exchanging digits with you but theres 1 burning question to be answered first' she said what is it, so replied well, wat's your number , she loled and gave it to me. Then I said I gotta go and went. and texted her with 'Hey M. here's my number catch you later C. x and she replied with 'Top bloke catch you on the flip side' xxx

    and thats it for now. Thinking how to progress it. I've talked about her with our mutual friend some time ago, she said she is quite hard to 'decipher' as is quite picky and fussy about men. To be honest I dont really know what to do, she's a HB7-8 so farking her would be great but on the other hand if she's a not really comfortable with men I wouldn't really want to hurt her in a way that some women after sex get a bit weird. Oh and We both recently lost contact with our mutual friend as she turned out to be a bit of a bitch..

    Any advice highly appreciated guys
    Thanks


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